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My husband of 10 years told me 2 days ago that he doesn't know if he wants to be married anymore. Before that I thought things were fine. We had spent the previous 3 days with no issues. Everyone has problems right? So I'm not saying we haven't been perfect but ... we haven't been "fighting". There hasn't been any yelling, screaming, cussing ... nothing that I know a lot of other couples are doing so I am just lost.

I spent all day yesterday sick to my stomach. Not understanding why and wondering what I did wrong or what I could or should do. He is my best and only friend. I have no one to talk to about this. I really need to be able to talk to someone but it's impossible.

He told me this morning that he will cancel his plans for this evening and spend the day with me but that is the best he can do is give me today. How's everyone else take that? I'm sick right now and don't even know what I'm going to do when he does get home. I'm supposed to make the plans. Like I know what we should do. After all ... he doesn't know if he wants to be married to me so what do I do? Do I try to impress him or just give up? Urh ... I'm just so sad and confused. Wishing I could stop being so sick and upset to take care of my life and kids right now.