Among the letters this week, I received a doozy from a woman named Caroline. She wrote, "My boyfriend told me that I needed to lose weight if I wanted to wear my bikini this summer. Now I don't even want to undress in front of him. I feel judged and rejected. What should I do?"

You now have a big job in front of you, Caroline. I don’t usually do this, but I’ll share a little bit of my personal life here.

About a decade ago, I told my then-girlfriend that she “waddled” when she walked. I can’t remember now why I said this. Clearly, I was reacting to some issue between us. My girlfriend, I can assure you, wasn’t a penguin. Penguins waddle. Humans do not.

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