Well of course they belong with you! I certainly hope that is how it turns out. We are going through the process of this right now.
Good to hear that things are better tantrum wise.

And boy are those twins cutie-pies! The fact that everyone is doing so well and thriving should speak volumes to the powers that be. What are you doing for them is invaluable.
Hope you can find some time for yourself. You gotta take care of yourself!

~m