Kristine,
If birthmom keeps missing visitation, etc., she very well could be staying with us.
BM kept saying she was wanting to get better and work a program, etc., so we were thinking baby wouldn't be staying. But we may be wrong.
I just finished talking to Lilly's aunt. Seems she thinks that her and I will be each raising a baby... her Lilly and me Olivia! From her mouth to God's ear...

~m