Nessa???

Celi · #1 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 12:58 PM

Anyone have news from Nessa? I was about to send her a PM but decided not to because... well I don't know... is easier to choose not read on the board...
Nessa I know that you are probably needing some "alone" time I just wanted to say that you are in my prayers...

Constance_13 · #2 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 01:50 PM

After saying my prayers last night I was thinking of how to word a post today for her.

Nessa - we are all thinking about you and your DH and keeping you guys in our prayers. I am so sorry you are going through such a low and hard time. We are all here if you ever need us. I will continue to think of you and send you lots of positive energy. Please update us when you can. BIG BIG HUGS!!!! Please let us know if we can help in any way!!!

Mommie2Ava&Presley · #3 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:44 AM

I sent her an email the other day, but still haven't heard back. I'm sure she just needs some healing time.

nessak · #4 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 02:17 PM

Thanks ladies I cannot tell you all enough how much you mean to me!
Today was my first day on the computer. I did check my email (Shannon I sent you an email)~Love ya!
I did start to m/c on Saturday nite. I started to bleed A LOT. By Sunday morning when I got my u/s they did not see anything in my uterus but my re said I could have already pass due to how much bleeding I was doing. They put me on pain meds and nausea meds and I took off work Mon and Tues so it has been a heck of a week! I am so thankful today is Friday. My re does think it was a uterine pregnancy by the look of my beta numbers so that is great...BUT...what is happening from there is unclear. So the next step is when I get my next af to call the office and he wants to do some sort of genetic testing and the hsg again (UH! OUCH!). Then I guess we will go from there.
Please forgive me for not giving an update sooner as I am still not feeling like myself. I am still very numb about the whole situation and still haven't not really gave myself to grieve (obviously as my eyes are finally starting to tear up for the first time!). So please know that I love you all and I get need some time to get myself back together.
I will keep ya'll updated as we get the ball moving again I am going to call the nurse on Monday and see if I have to wait until my next af for the genetic testing because who know when that will be with the m/c and all.
Tons of super sticky babydust to all ladies ttc!

mommaphoebs · #5 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 02:20 PM

Hugs Nessa. We're thinking of you.

Mommie2Ava&Presley · #6 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 03:15 PM

I was just about to give an update from the email I got from Nessa, but I see she made it here to give one herself. We all have you in our prayers, sweetie! You mean a lot to us. You know that! We're here when you are ready to join us again.

Celi · #7 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 05:08 PM

Take your time Nessa! We are here for you when you are ready to come back... You are in my prayers!!!

Constance_13 · #8 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 06:29 PM

BIG BIG BIG HUGS GIRLY!!!!! I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I am so very sorry you are going through all this. I wish there was more I could do to help. We are here when you are ready to come back!!!! Take your time and really truly look after your self.

Maybe you and your DH could plan a nice weekend away just the two of you and leave all the craziness of the world behind you for a few days....just be with each other, cuddle, go for walks, shop, have a massage....something to really treat your self and take you far away from everything.

Love ya girly!!!! We are here always!!!! HUGS