i just wanna scream and tell my in laws to go away and never come back.. i don't get a long with my hubby's rents at all but i have always tried to be nice.. me and hubby are boh goths and i think they though he would find a nice normal girl yadda yadda yadda so this don't help my case at all plus my 'rents where always helpin us. but it is not like his never have either.. but anyways today in my hubby's birthday i was goin to cook him a nice supper and make a cake for him but now i am not as his 'rents insist on takin us out for supper ok fine what ever but it just pisses me off cause since we moved out here his mom has only be here once that was for zakk first birthday and couldn't even show on time she called an hour before the party and ask me if could move it up two hours so granddad could come (who never showed anyways and i had changed the date so she could make it) ok i seen a little red after that one and i still am. we have been to their house maybe 4 times since we moved here and she has had then over night maybe twice this is also the women who bought a one year old for christmas a suit case and an outfit and lily a plate and bowl. but i can only see it being a fight tonight cause at teh end of jan our car toasted we asked them for help as my rents are in alaska and we are in canada so that just don't help us any at all. but whatever they are goin to try to fix his moms other car something went wrong on it and they just bought a new car for her so anyways we wait and wait without a car livin on a farm with 2 kids. grrrr in -40c to top it off so we give up on then and get the neon fix (the toasted car) cause we could actually get it towed into town we saved the money and it wasn't snowed in anymore. in the mean time gord (hubby) gets all his debt paid off and ask his dad to see if he will co sign (each time we ask even if it the samething we have already talked we get huge fincial lecture so this is not easy to do) yeah sure no prob so gord goes and talks to dealership and does what he needs to do calls his dad dad says yes will go down and do that week later call from dealership dad never went this has been the last 2 months pretty well his dad thinks we should go to his bank first.. this is alll after 3 months of this crap.. so anyways we ended getting a 07 pt cruiser on our own with very high apr but it is start and we are very proud and well his rents are pissed and we are suppose to go for supper with them tonight.
thanxs that feels a bit better

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