Whoa!!!

I would definately get a referral to a RE... IUI should not be done without having the sample washed. This could lead to severe infections, etc. She could do an ICI or IVI without washing the sample, but historically those methods haven't been any more affective than traditional BD'ing. I would definately see someone else. This might be the best time to get a relationship established with an RE since you're kind of in waiting for DH's count to improve post-surgery.