I've seen a few women on the boards here that admit to TTC without their husband's consent or knowledge. How do you feel about this? I personally think it is disrespectful. Having a child is a huge thing and I think both parents should want to do it.

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I'm always missing my angels in heaven

I think it is worse than disrespectful, I think it is a horrendous thing to do! Women who do that disgust me.

I would go so far to say that if a man could prove this in a court of law he should not be financially responsible for the child.

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I think it can be the death knell for a marriage. It's such a breaking of trust between spouses. I think that I'd be more unable to forgive my spouse for tricking me into a pregnancy, than I would an affair. I'd almost feel raped, in a way.

Just plain WRONG!!

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This is a no brianer for me. It's completely wrong and very stupid to say the least.

Not a smart choice. It would most likely ruin the marriage.

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Carolyn

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I think it is wrong and a very bad idea. I know someone that did that to their husband he wants nothing to do with the child.

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grounds for divorce

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