Obviously, a woman gets pregnant and is not 100% positive of who the father is she should fess up to whoever may be the Dad. But what about those women who do not tell? And let some guy think he is the biological dad, even though he may not be? Do you think she should come clean after he has bonded with the child? Or should she keep her mouth shut?

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I think she should be honest from the start. That's a cruel secret to keep.

After he's bonded, well , that's a tough one If one of my children were switched at birth and weren't really "mine" I wouldn't want to know.

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I agree.

It is unforgiveable that a woman does not come clean right away.

But, if the man has bonded? Leave it be and let him be the Dad. What is the point in 'coming clean'? I often wonder if those women have hidden agendas. Like they want child support from the biological father. Hideous.

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Holy crap girl you went to town on the debates today! I need some sleep before I can look at all these LoL

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I am rather enjoying them!!

While I think most of those shows are fake, I do believe some woman do this. There reason they decide to tell later I think is that something is happening in the relationship and they want revenge. I just could never imagine being so cruel. Seems like that is the type of people that keep having children by different daddies and we just end up paying for them. Sorry for the sterotype, but there is one of those girls across the street that live with her parents. She does not work, she is on WIC, medicaid, and Aid. Although she has a newer car with a new sound system and tinted windows. Oh, the new bf lives there too. Trash!!

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I hate his shows like that.. keep it private... But the man should know