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Old 02-07-2007, 03:52 PM
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Default Pornography.

Do you like it? Does your S/O?

I don't like it. Does nothing for me, and I find that the "fake" aspect of it is a turn-off.

I have no problem with other people enjoying it. I will admit that I am glad that DH does not look at much, and never at home. It makes me uncomfortable.

I worry about the effect of the amount of available porn on the net may affect teenagers. Not because sex is "bad" but that porn is not realistic.

I do think that some adults can become addicted to it. I had an acquaintance once that viewed copious amounts of porn. He would say really odd and creepy things to me. Trying to solicite some sort of weird sexual response like a porn star would give, I guess.
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Old 02-07-2007, 04:11 PM
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Default Re: Pornography.

I really don't have an interest, and neither does my husband.
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Old 02-07-2007, 07:19 PM
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Default Re: Pornography.

I have no interest, but coudln't care less what anyone else does--including DH.
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Old 02-07-2007, 08:21 PM
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Default Re: Pornography.

I don't like it and neither does dh. I think it's too easy for kids to see though, online. Why these websites can't have blank homepages is beyond me. My oldest son started randomly doing searches for whatever(even after we password protected the computer)and found lots of inappropriate websites and even though you can't generally get past the homepage without ID, there is enough on the homepage(if you are really desperate)to "excite" someone. He was also accessing this stuff at school. They said they had protection on the computers, but obviously it wasn't good enough as my son was able to not only get access, but he also PRINTED almost 100 pictures. You may ask why he wasn't supervised....well, he had the janitor let him back into the school after the teachers had all gone home. The pictures that he printed....apparently the computer froze up or something, so my son panicked and left. When the teachers came in the next morning, they had printed and fell all over the floor. They knew it was my son because his ID number(each student has their own) was on all of the pictures.
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Old 02-07-2007, 09:01 PM
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Default Re: Pornography.

If my DH & I watch porn, it is always done together............I am not too fussed whether or not we watch it, but occassionally we do , u never know what u might learn

However, I dont approve of the amount of porn that is readily available on the net, kids today, can access it sooooo easily, even with parental locks . Something should be done about it.
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Old 02-08-2007, 06:02 AM
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Default Re: Pornography.

I think it can be fun and it can add levels of excitement to our love life. I don't really care. I do think parents need to be very careful with teens and the computers. We will not allow a computer in their bedrooms with internet access. The fact remains if the kids want to find pornography, they will find a way somehow. Same way as kids did when I was growing up.

I also agree that pornography can cause unrealistic expectations but I don't think that problem is limited to just pornography. I knew a girl where I worked pre-kids, and this woman was addicted to romance novels. Nothing wrong with that but she measured every guy she dated to the "heroes" in these books and of course she always found the real life guys lacking. No one could tell her that life was not a romance book. Then I look at Hollywood and many of the people that come out of there and the movies they produce, it really does add to the unrealistic expectations that both boys and girls have.
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Old 02-08-2007, 01:22 PM
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I Don't like it and I agree, it is very accesible to children, you just mispell a website and BAM! naked people on the screen appear! There should def. be something done about it!
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Old 02-20-2007, 10:49 PM
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we have a great relationship so we dont need other things to get in the way. i find it fake and nasty. i'd be offended if he looked at porn.
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