hi........thought id pop in

toniq · #1 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 04:31 AM

Hi,

just wanted to thank all u lovely ladies for all the help and emotional support u gave me, i so hope this year is the year our dreams come true,
Ive took time away from IF and am still pondering our next move, we have been offered a consult in switzerland who think they can help us,as you can imagine its going to be very expensive so i need to weigh it up, though dh as always bless him wants to jump at it.
My consultant in england thinks its down to the meds i needed after a tumor years back,
I am with a new counsellor who i actually like, and i know my grief is still raw, The miscarriages and failed ius and ivf have obviously damaged my pysche.
But im over the constant tears and actually enjoyed xmas.
You guys were wonderful to me and i hated just dissappeaing but had to as my state of mind wasnt the best!
much love and hugs to you all
((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))

Tkeys · #2 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 09:30 AM

I'm so glad you are feeling better! Do whatever you need to take care of yourself - that is the most important thing.

Happy New Year - I hope this year brings you nothing but happiness and joy, and all of your dreams come true.

Nicky7 · #3 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 09:47 AM

Welcome back Toni... I'm glad to hear you're feeling well.

I hope 2008 is a wonderful year for you and your partner, whatever road you choose.

Oatie32 · #4 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 10:30 AM

Welcome back Toni!!

If no one else understands you having to take time for yourself, the ladies here do. Its well deserved time after what you've been through!!! Good for you!!
I'm glad you are doing well and hope that 2008 brings you your long deserved dream!!

angie33 · #5 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 10:41 AM

Ditto to what the other girls said. I'm glad you're feeling better, and I hope 2008 is the year for you. I think 2007 was my worst year ever b/c of all my losses. You sound like you're on the right track and I hope the drs. can figure it out and you're on your way very soon!

Take care!!

finallyamommy · #6 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 10:42 AM

Toni, glad you took time to do what you needed to do for yourself. I'm so happy to hear that you enjoyed your Christmas!

Good luck with the new counselor. Change can be a good thing!

Cheers to you in 2008... hoping this is the year that you and many more of us experience the joy of achieving that BFP we're all chasing!

to you and your DH.

Kristin1112 · #7 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 10:50 AM

Welcome back Toni!
Glad to hear that you had a nice holiday, and that you're feeling a little better!

Kristin

colinsmom · #8 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 01:21 PM

I'm glad you posted. I've been thinking about you. I'm glad you took some time for yourself, good luck to you in 2008!

UEScookie · #9 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 01:51 PM

I'm so glad to see you back again, Toni! Let's hope 2008 is the year for all of us

Staciewi · #10 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 03:25 PM

Welcome back Toni...

I cant wait to hear what you decide to do.

Glad you are feeling a little bit better...we all understand the need for a break now and then.

toniq · #11 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 03:45 PM

thank u. it took alot of courage to post.

mildlydelirious · #12 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 04:41 PM

back! I'm glad you posted.

to what everyone has said.

And you are very welcome here anytime, don't hesitate to post.

~m

BellyBellyBelly · #13 (**permalink**) 01-03-2008, 01:05 PM

Thank goodness you have turned the corner. It's a grieving process so you will have some ups and downs but I know you can survive this. We are here to support you.