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Old 03-04-2008, 07:14 AM
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I am going bonkers. I am 8dt3dFET and for POAS I got nada, nothing, zilch, zippo.

I need your help. Without shoving sunshine up my you-know-what, can you tell me what you think are the chances I could still get a BFP? I have been looking around the net and it seems many girls know by day 6, 7, or 8.

Whaddya think? Should I fold up my tent and go home????
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Old 03-04-2008, 07:30 AM
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Renee-
I think it takes longer for a FET to show up. My beta for my FET's has always been scheduled for 14dpt which is way later than everyone elses. In an FET, your body needs more help with hormones because it hasn't gone through the "natural" process of ovulation (I know...how "natural" is stimming ).

When is your beta?

Try not to freak out yet...FETs ARE different. I have always thought the waiting was worse than during a fresh cycle.

Hang in there!
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Old 03-04-2008, 07:43 AM
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Renee, I have also heard that it might take longer for FET's to show up, so hang in there and hopefully the line will be there in the next few days

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Old 03-04-2008, 07:45 AM
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There is still hope!!!

I dont' know if you remember any of my posts when I was POAS, but there are so many factors that can make a +beta not show yet. For me, I had a FRER that was not expired, but was old, and it kept showing BFN's even when the brand new FRER's (with much later exp dates) were BFP! It's still early, hang in there!!

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7/01 - m/c @ 11w
'01-'02 - 4 Chem Pg's (Natural)
2/03 - m/c @ 6w (Follistim/IUI)
5/18/03- Twin Boys (4th IUI)
5/05 - Chem Pg (Natural)
7/05 - failed IUI (#5)
All of '06 waiting to adopt... matched in August. Failed.
1/2007 - Matched with donor embies and about to cycle when got BFP.
2/12/07 - m/c @ 6w (loss #8 including chem's)
3/1/2007 - Began metformin
1/28/2008 - Transferred two donor embies
2/4/2008 - !!! Beta - 26 at 7dp3dt
2/6/2008 - Beta - 79 (but from a different lab)
2/8/2008 - Beta - 121 at 11dp3dt
2/11/2008 - Beta 314 at 14dp3dt
2/15/2008 - Beta 1640 at 18dp3dt!!
2/22/2008 - 6w u/s showed 1 healthy baby with hb!
3/13/2008 - U/S showed hb of 167!

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Old 03-04-2008, 07:47 AM
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the other girls!! You still have time! And I'm not shoving sunshine up your you-know-what.
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Old 03-04-2008, 08:03 AM
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I don't blow sunshine up nothing -- You had cramping yesterday right??? Well, I'm sure that was implantation!!! So if that was just yesterday, than you need about 3-4 more days to see a line!! Don't give up yet, NO WAY!!!!
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Old 03-04-2008, 08:18 AM
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WAY early. My RE insists that nothing counts before 13p3dt.

Hang on. Hang on. Hang on.

Not time to pack up your bags yet.


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Old 03-04-2008, 09:02 AM
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Hang in there, sweetie. I did not have even the faintest line until 7dp5dt. You have plenty of time, seriously .
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