First IVF Coming soon

Cindy71 · #1 (**permalink**) 01-01-2008, 02:45 PM

Hi ladies,

I'm new to this board. I used to post in IUI last year. DH and I took a break in 2007 and have decided to move forward with the more aggressive approach. Our protocol is IVF w/ ICSI in February. I'm waiting for AF, then will start BCPs 1/19 approx.

I have to admit I'm nervous even with having previously done IUI w/ injections. There's just so much more to loose it seems. Money aside, emotional pain, and pressure of getting older by the minute are so daunting. I know it will all be worth it, but my strength and faith have been through so much in the last 3 years. I know I'm not alone. This site has brought so many women together. I'm grateful for that.

angie33 · #2 (**permalink**) 01-01-2008, 03:13 PM

Hello! I'm just lurking here, but I wanted to welcome you! I come over here often to learn all about IVF, as my RE has told us that IVF and adoption are our only options at this point. I usually post on the IUI board.

I just wanted to know that I know how you feel. I could've written your post. I've been tested to my limits both emotionally and financially and have yet to bring home a baby.

I think it's great you are getting agressive w/ your treatments and have decided on IVF. I hope and pray you get your bfp very soon!

You take care and keep us posted! I think the ladies here are wonderful and they always answer any questions I may have, I'm sure you'll be quite welcome here!

want2beamommy13 · #3 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 09:23 AM

Hi Cindy, Welcome.

I wish you didnt have to join us, and like we always say here.....I hope your stay is SHORT AND SWEET

I am in the middle of my 2nd IVF. My 35th birthday is on the 17th of this month so I'm TOTALLY hearing you with the 'race against time'. Its not like the whole process isnt difficult enough! I feel like Marissa Tomei in 'My Cousin Vinnie' where she's stomping on the porch about her bilogical clock ticking......lol

I wish you alot of luck and hope that this ride is smooth sailing for you.....You've found a GREAT support system here though! I dont know how I would have made it this far without these ladies!

Baby Dust to you!!

Nicky7 · #4 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 09:49 AM

Cindy!

We can all relate to the anxiety that comes with moving to IVF... you are not alone!

Sending lots of

your way

Cindy71 · #5 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 10:16 AM

Thanks ladies!

I just spoke with the nurse this morning. Looks like the ER and ET will be at the end of February if all goes according to plan. My 37th birthday is 3/9 so it will be yoo hoo!!!!!!!!!! or boo hoo...................

Happy Birthday want2beamommy13

Oatie32 · #6 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 10:21 AM

Welcome!! These ladies here are amazing and helped me through my first IVF cycle (which I had May/June 07) I'm still hanging around even after my

!! I can't get enough!! and can't wait to share my miracle with these ladies when he arrives!! Its just a wonderful place to be knowing there are so many other women that understand every little thing you are going through..

I hope you first IVF is successful and your stay is short and sweet!!

GOOD LUCK!!

Kristin1112 · #7 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 02:23 PM

I know I'm just echoing everyone else, but this site truly has been a lifesaver. I don't think I could've gotten through my BFN without the supoort of all the girls on this board. I'm sorry you have to join us, but you've definately come to the right place!

Welcome!

Kristin

carriemb · #8 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 03:24 PM

Hiya Cindy!
I missed you when you dissapeared on my last year and am glad to hear from you again, just wish it could have been on a due in board, instead of on the still trying circuit!
I wish you all of the best with your IVF and pray you get your miracle!
(how is your puppy doing?)

hopefullynow · #9 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 03:30 PM

Hi Cindy:
I can totally relate to approaching another birthday and feeling like time is running out. I got my BFP just days before my 38th birthday so I hope the luck keeps trickling down to you in March. Welcome!

Staciewi · #10 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 03:32 PM

Welcome!!

I hope you get your BFP for a very nice birthday gift.

SO hope you get the YOO HOO, and not the BOO HOO!!!

finallyamommy · #11 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 04:08 PM

Hi Cindy! I agree with all the other ladies, I don't know how I would have been after two unsuccessful IVF attemps without the support of these ladies. You are DEFINITELY in the right place! Here's

for a BFP for your March birthday!!!

Tkeys · #12 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 04:13 PM

Welcome! I have an IVF coming soon, too . . . and we also are dealing with MFI, so we will be doing IVF w/ICSI. Good luck! This board is so supportive.

mildlydelirious · #13 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 04:50 PM

Cindy

I so

with everyone. Glad you are here and I look forward to cheering

you through your cycle.

~m

My mom's birthday was 2/10.

Cindy71 · #14 (**permalink**) 01-02-2008, 11:22 PM

I'm glad to be here. Hope it's short though.

Carrie-my puppy is great. DH actually bought me a second maltese for my bday last year. It's her first bday today. They really enjoy eachother.

JSquare · #15 (**permalink**) 01-03-2008, 11:37 AM

Welcome!! I haven't been on here too long myself but I've found everyone to be so nice and very helpful. I also hope your stay on the IVF boards will be short

I can relate with the age thing. I don't feel or look 38 (everyone does a double-take when they find out how old I am) but my body is 38. Best of luck to you and keep us posted!

BellyBellyBelly · #16 (**permalink**) 01-03-2008, 12:41 PM

Welcome, welcome, welcome. You will be an old pro before you know it, especially since you have done injectables for an IUI.

Cindy71 · #17 (**permalink**) 01-03-2008, 08:35 PM

Thanks for the warm welcome everyone. So tell me how you decide how many eggs to transfer. I think that's the hardest decision.

finallyamommy · #18 (**permalink**) 01-03-2008, 09:07 PM

Our dr made his recommendation based on the quality of the eggs. In our case, we had 3-5 that were of the quality (based on a scoring system) he recommended, but always left the final decision up to us. In both attempts, we transferred 5... keep in mind that I'm in my 40's and statistically 50% could be chromasomally abnormal... so we transferred the maximum for the best potential results. I'm envious of the ladies that can "get away" with having 1, 2 or even 3 transferred with confidence that one will take. My dr has two daughters, both IVF babies... so I know he counsels all his patients as he would his own wife. Pretty comforting.

Cindy71 · #19 (**permalink**) 01-17-2008, 09:42 PM

I'm thinking 3, but I'm really not sure. I guess I have time to think about it. I can hardly think of anything else. LOL I could have never guessed the obsessive thoughts that go with this deal.

Justine · #20 (**permalink**) 01-18-2008, 06:20 AM

Hello and Welcome! I too will be doing first IVF - a month later than you though. Let's hope and pray that the first time is the charm.

Yes, the emotional side of this is horrible. I can't even watch TV -- every time I see a baby I start crying. My children think I've lost my mind.

Baby Dust and Postive Thoughts to you.