SheKnows Message Boards  
 

Welcome to the SheKnows Message Boards.
Hi! You're not currently logged in or aren't yet a member -- but you can still read everything, as well as reply to posts and vote in polls. If you register (for free), you can also create new topics, track messages/friends, use a sig file and make a blog! (We're also offering great prizes for posting to your blog -- get the details here.)
Member Login
Username
Password
Sign Up | Lost PW? | Remember Me |



confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

This is a discussion on confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel within the Invitrofertilization (IVF) forums, part of the Trying to Conceive - Infertility category; no heartbeat on u/s. no growth. will take the medicine to try to miscarry naturally again since it started ...

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 07:42 AM
SKImpressive
 
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Indiana
Posts: 2,702
Icon13 confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

no heartbeat on u/s. no growth. will take the medicine to try to miscarry naturally again since it started a bit on it's own. praying i don't have another D&C.

many hugs to all.
__________________
Rachelle

TTC #1 from Jan 2002 to July 2005, Miscarriage 2/3/03- 1st Angel
1st 3 tries on injectibles/IUI - FAILED
IVF #1 #2, and #3 4/04, 8/04, 10/04 -FAILED
IVF #4 5/05 - FAILED donor eggs (transferred 2- 8 cell)
IVF #5 7/05 DEFET- SUCCESS (10, 9, 4, 2 cell) Shelly Marie born 3/28/06


IVF #6 DEIVF 7/07 FAILED (2- 8 cell) Betas 16.9 and 13 -Chemical
IVF #7 DEFET -11/07 (10, 8, 7, 4 cell) 12dp3dt beta 187, 14dp3dt beta 490, Miscarriage 12/17/07 2nd angel
IVF #8 DEFET 4/2/08 - (9, 9, 4 cell) 13dp3dt beta 203, 15dp3dt Beta 456. Miscarriage 5/12/08 -3rd angel
Done TTCing. Will move to adoption when I have healed




Visit Shelly's sitehttp://www.babysites.com/sites/blclo...age=home&seq=1
Reply With Quote
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 07:44 AM
SKDevotee
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 409
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

I don't know what to say. I am so sorry.
__________________
Me (38) and DH (34) married Oct. 2005

TTC #1 since Jan. 2006
3 IUIs with Clomid - all BFN
IVF Cycle #1 Sept./Oct. 2007
Oct. 11 - BFP but only 35 (chemical pregnancy)
IVF Cycle #2 Feb./March 2008
March 21 - BFN
IVF Cycle #3 - FET May 2008
May 28 - embabies didn't survive the thaw
July 2008 - first adoption agency meetings!




Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 07:55 AM
Host
 
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Just another tumbleweed from AZ
Posts: 13,366
Send a message via AIM to mildlydelirious Send a message via Yahoo to mildlydelirious
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

Oh my dear. I am so very, very sorry.

Know that I am here praying for God to hold you all gently in his arms and give you his peace in this time of grieving.

I'm keeping you in my heart. I'm sending you strength. I'm sending you hope that you will find your next baby, in whatever way, soon.

God Bless You.


~M
__________________








Reply With Quote
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 07:56 AM
want2beamommy13's Avatar
SKXtreme
 
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: NJ
Posts: 1,735
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

I'm SO sorry Rachelle.........I know very well just how badly this hurts!
__________________



Me (35) & DH (30)
Our Journey:
TTC#1 since Oct '05 with Three Angels in Heaven
5 IUIs - 12/06 Angel lost at 8wks (lost heartbeat - D&C)
IVF#1 - Low Beta - 9/07 Angel lost at 6wks (no heartbeat - D&C)
IVF #2 - Low Beta - 2/08 Angel lost at 8 weeks (ectopic - D&C/methx shot/emergency lap)
IVF#3 (FET) 4/08 - 3dtx of remaining 4 embies

IVF#4 - 16 retreived, 13 mature/fertilized All frozen due to poor lining
13 Embies on Ice - FET in August!!


Reply With Quote
  #5 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 08:06 AM
Host
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Ala stinkin' bama!!
Posts: 4,690
Send a message via AIM to Oatie32
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

I'm so sorry!!
__________________

Reply With Quote
  #6 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 08:13 AM
Host
 
Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Queens, NY 11379
Posts: 10,815
Send a message via AIM to SpoiledHouseWife
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

I am very sorry.
Reply With Quote
  #7 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 08:24 AM
SKFriend
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 164
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

I am so sorry to hear this. I wish you and your family lots of strength to bear this hard time. Will keep you in my prayers.
Reply With Quote
  #8 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 08:32 AM
Babygurl's Avatar
SKXtreme
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 1,901
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

Ugh. My heart skipped a beat when I saw this post You are a strong woman to have gone through all of this. I hope you find comfort in knowing everything happens for a reason....we just can't see the big picture right now....but....one day it will all make sense....
Reply With Quote
  #9 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 09:02 AM
Tkeys's Avatar
Host
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 5,976
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

Rachelle - I'm just so sorry you are going through this . . . and so sorry for how your hopes have been jerked around.
Reply With Quote
  #10 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 09:30 AM
SKMagnificent
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Posts: 1,125
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

So sorry you are going thru this. I have been there many times and it is not good--ever!
__________________
===============
Meenu
ET 11/19/07 5dp
beta# 1 11/29/01 = 186 beta #2 12/03/07 = 770 beta # 3 12/05/07 = 2008 Miscarriage at 5w2d
IVF # 2 Started Lupron 2/20/08 10 units Follistim 2/27/08 225 units ER 4/11/08
ER - 24 retrived, 19 mature and 13 fertilized
Chemical!


Reply With Quote
  #11 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 09:56 AM
finallyamommy's Avatar
SKEmpress
 
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: So Cal, born & raised!
Posts: 4,090
Send a message via AIM to finallyamommy Send a message via Yahoo to finallyamommy
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel



Oh Rachelle, I was so hoping that you wouldn't have to face this and that your little bean would continue to fight and thrive. to what Marian posted. I couldn't say it any better myself. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
__________________

Lynn wife to Fred
and Mommy to Lauren
The creative mind of a child... makes a mommy proud!
(um... why yes, that IS a Pull-Up on her head...)
Reply With Quote
  #12 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 10:37 AM
SKAficionada
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Posts: 469
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

My heart aches for you. I am so very sorry.
Reply With Quote
  #13 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 10:47 AM
patriciainny's Avatar
SKXtreme
 
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Upstate NY
Posts: 1,820
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

I am so sorry
__________________



TTC #1 for over 4 years -
IVF with ICSI #1 - March 2005
IVF with ICSI #2 -August 2005
IUI #1
September '06 IVF with ICSI #3 postponed due to illness
Nove 3 - ER 13 eggs retreived 12 mature
Fert Report--11/4/06- 10 still going strong---we will do a 5 day transfer
Fert Report 11/8/06 - still have 10 --transfered 4 day 5 blasts
11/17 beta 59 11/22 740 11/27 2700 2 sacs
WE have one great heartbeat!!

TAYLOR MARIE IS HERE---BORN 6/25/07 - 5 weeks early weighing 7lbs 5oz and 20 inches long

8/30 Well Child---Weight 11lbs14oz
10/27 3 month Well Child- Weight 16lbs 10oz (I think??)
1/9/08 6 month Well child- Weight 19lbs 8 oz and 27 inches long
2/26/0MD visit- Weight 22lbs
3/27/08 9 month Well child- Weight 22lbs 3 oz and 30 inches long
Reply With Quote
  #14 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 10:49 AM
SKMagnificent
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Adrian, Mo south of Kansas City
Posts: 1,177
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

I've followed your story and I just wanted to tell you I am very sorry......I've been where you are. Please take care of yourself, I'm praying for healing vibes for you and your family....
__________________
Angie

Angie 35
Brian 33
DSD Caitlin 11
ttc our #1 for 5 yrs

angel baby 10/26/02 unknown pg till m/c @ home
angel baby 01/22/07 @7 wks 2 days
angel baby 08/01/07 @7 wks 2 days
angel baby 11/07/07 @5 wks 5 days
Reply With Quote
  #15 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 10:50 AM
Justine's Avatar
SKSupreme
 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: FL
Posts: 780
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

I am so truly truly sorry for you. Please take care.
Justine
Reply With Quote
  #16 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 10:51 AM
SKPrincess
 
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Kansas City, MO
Posts: 6,247
Send a message via Yahoo to mollyjp
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

I am so sorry Rachelle. I was so hoping that you would get better news.
__________________





Reply With Quote
  #17 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 12:56 PM
ainara's Avatar
SKGuru
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Houston, TX
Posts: 612
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

I don't know what to say Rachelle, I am so very sorry....
__________________
Ainara (29) DH Zoran(41)
DS Adriano (7) natural preg.
TTC #2 since '04
Clomid x3
IUI w/Clomid X1
Dx. MF Aug.'07
IVF #1 March/April '08
E/R 4/14 25 eggs15 fertilized
E/T 4/19 2 Blast.
1st. Beta 4/28 174
2nd, Beta 4/30 336
1st. U/S 5/12 no HB detected/1 sac.
2nd. U/S 5/19 blighted uvum.
Cytotec induced M/C 5/20. (at 7w1d)
IVF #2 (FET) August/Sept.'08


Reply With Quote
  #18 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 01:47 PM
SKDevotee
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 447
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

Hugs to you, Rachelle. I'm so sorry you've had to go through this.
__________________
TTC Since 2003
Background: Endo diagnosed 1991, 1 lap, 4 scopes
IUI #1 6/07 BFN
IUI #2 7/07 BFN
IUI #3 8/07 BFN
IVF #1 with ICSI 10/07 BFN
*new clinic*
IVF #2 02/08 ectopic/methotrexate injection

FET#1 06/15/08 5dt
(both embies made the thaw!)
Beta 06/24/08 57
Beta 06/26/08 189
Beta and u/s 07/01/08 2200!!! saw sac!
Beta and u/s 07/07/08 15730 saw yolk sac!
Beta and u/s 07/14/08 saw heartbeat! holy cow!
Reply With Quote
  #19 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 01:49 PM
hopeful gal's Avatar
Host
 
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Chicago here we come!!
Posts: 5,604
Send a message via AIM to hopeful gal
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

I'm very sorry My heart is aching for you.

Janay
__________________
Janay-34 Dh-34
Married July 1999
TTC#1 since 2000
Stage 4 Endo, MTHFR
IVF#1 09/06 BFN

IVF#2 after we move

Host of the Endometriosis Board




Reply With Quote
  #20 (permalink)  
Old 05-12-2008, 02:36 PM
Staciewi's Avatar
SKDiva
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: CALGON TAKE ME AWAY!!!
Posts: 10,448
Send a message via AIM to Staciewi Send a message via Yahoo to Staciewi
Default Re: confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel

Rachelle, I am so sorry.

I know words dont even come close to making this better, but I just know that there is a little baby out there, maybe not here quite yet, but I just know you are going to give a wonderful life to another little one if you go the adoption route, and that little baby is going to be so lucky

Hang in there and know we are all sending you healing thoughts.
__________________
Stacie
DS~Jake
DS~Elijah








Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 02:03 PM.