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This is a discussion on confirmed miscarriage-3rd angel within the Invitrofertilization (IVF) forums, part of the Trying to Conceive - Infertility category; no heartbeat on u/s. no growth. will take the medicine to try to miscarry naturally again since it started ...
no heartbeat on u/s. no growth. will take the medicine to try to miscarry naturally again since it started a bit on it's own. praying i don't have another D&C.
many hugs to all.
__________________ Rachelle
TTC #1 from Jan 2002 to July 2005, Miscarriage 2/3/03- 1st Angel
1st 3 tries on injectibles/IUI - FAILED
IVF #1 #2, and #3 4/04, 8/04, 10/04 -FAILED
IVF #4 5/05 - FAILED donor eggs (transferred 2- 8 cell)
IVF #5 7/05 DEFET- SUCCESS (10, 9, 4, 2 cell) Shelly Marie born 3/28/06
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Me (38) and DH (34) married Oct. 2005
TTC #1 since Jan. 2006
3 IUIs with Clomid - all BFN
IVF Cycle #1 Sept./Oct. 2007
Oct. 11 - BFP but only 35 (chemical pregnancy)
IVF Cycle #2 Feb./March 2008
March 21 - BFN
IVF Cycle #3 - FET May 2008
May 28 - embabies didn't survive the thaw
July 2008 - first adoption agency meetings!
I'm SO sorry Rachelle.........I know very well just how badly this hurts!
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Me (35) & DH (30) Our Journey: TTC#1 since Oct '05 with Three Angels in Heaven 5 IUIs - 12/06 Angel lost at 8wks (lost heartbeat - D&C) IVF#1 - Low Beta - 9/07 Angel lost at 6wks (no heartbeat - D&C) IVF #2 - Low Beta - 2/08 Angel lost at 8 weeks (ectopic - D&C/methx shot/emergency lap) IVF#3 (FET) 4/08 - 3dtx of remaining 4 embies IVF#4 - 16 retreived, 13 mature/fertilized All frozen due to poor lining 13 Embies on Ice - FET in August!!
Ugh. My heart skipped a beat when I saw this post You are a strong woman to have gone through all of this. I hope you find comfort in knowing everything happens for a reason....we just can't see the big picture right now....but....one day it will all make sense....
Oh Rachelle, I was so hoping that you wouldn't have to face this and that your little bean would continue to fight and thrive. to what Marian posted. I couldn't say it any better myself. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Lynn wife to Fred
and Mommy to Lauren
The creative mind of a child... makes a mommy proud!
(um... why yes, that IS a Pull-Up on her head...)
TTC #1 for over 4 years - IVF with ICSI #1 - March 2005 IVF with ICSI #2 -August 2005 IUI #1 September '06 IVF with ICSI #3 postponed due to illness Nove 3 - ER 13 eggs retreived 12 mature
Fert Report--11/4/06- 10 still going strong---we will do a 5 day transfer
Fert Report 11/8/06 - still have 10 --transfered 4 day 5 blasts
11/17 beta 59 11/22 740 11/27 2700 2 sacs
WE have one great heartbeat!!
TAYLOR MARIE IS HERE---BORN 6/25/07 - 5 weeks early weighing 7lbs 5oz and 20 inches long
8/30 Well Child---Weight 11lbs14oz
10/27 3 month Well Child- Weight 16lbs 10oz (I think??)
1/9/08 6 month Well child- Weight 19lbs 8 oz and 27 inches long
2/26/0MD visit- Weight 22lbs
3/27/08 9 month Well child- Weight 22lbs 3 oz and 30 inches long
I've followed your story and I just wanted to tell you I am very sorry......I've been where you are. Please take care of yourself, I'm praying for healing vibes for you and your family....
__________________ Angie
Angie 35
Brian 33
DSD Caitlin 11
ttc our #1 for 5 yrs
angel baby 10/26/02 unknown pg till m/c @ home
angel baby 01/22/07 @7 wks 2 days
angel baby 08/01/07 @7 wks 2 days
angel baby 11/07/07 @5 wks 5 days
I know words dont even come close to making this better, but I just know that there is a little baby out there, maybe not here quite yet, but I just know you are going to give a wonderful life to another little one if you go the adoption route, and that little baby is going to be so lucky
Hang in there and know we are all sending you healing thoughts.