Hi Stacy and
I know exactly what you mean and what you're going through. DH and I have been ttc#1 for more than 5 1/2 years with 2 m/c. Our insensitive receptionist at work knew everything we had been through (IUIs, IVF, etc.). The
DAY I came back to work after my failed IVF (which she knew failed) she told me her unmarried 20 yr old sister was pg w/#2. I really didn't need to hear that right then. Three weeks later she told the office she was pg. I had to see her every day at work and hear the pg complaints, etc. Not to mention the inappropriate comments about the baby - almost like she wasn't ready for it and didn't want it. It was really tough. But when she would start talking about it I would try to leave the conversation if I could.
A lot of people that haven't had to deal with IF just don't get it. They don't understand the emotional turmoil that goes along with IF. Since your friend knows you are ttc and about the m/c, you may want to talk to her about how it makes you feel to be around her while she's pg and you're still struggling with IF. Tell her you really are happy for her and it's not personal. If she is a true friend she will understand and respect your feelings.
Sorry to go on and on.
Good luck with the 2ww. Let us know the results. I'll be thinking sticky thoughts for you that this will be your cycle.