Intro / New to Fibroids / Fertility Question
Hi My name is Shannon and I had our miracle baby girl 7 1/2 months ago. Although all babies are miracles - to us she is especially so. I had to have a TR to even get pregnant, then had 3 m/cs over the next 3 years before finding out I had an autoimmune problem where my body was attacking my babies. Two weeks later I was pregnant with her, and with continued meds she was delivered healthy on her Daddy's birthday by scheduled c-section. Both DH and myself are older parents (DH 46 and me 41) and each had 2 older children from previous marriages. Because our other kids (27, 25, 20, and 15) are so much older and all but one are out of the house, we had hoped to have one more child so that Ava wouldn't have to grow up alone.
That takes me up to why I am here. After Ava's birth I had very irregular bleeding for the first time in my life. No pain involved in any of it - even though I had opted for an IUD for b/c until we were going to TTC again once she turns a year old. (I'm not able to use b/c pills or any hormone therapies due to what it does to my b/p - so IUD is one of my only options.) When I went in for a 6 month follow up and mentioned the lengthy, although light AF, my OB/GYN did a pelvic exam and noticed my uterus was enlarged. He did an u/s and noticed a fibroid 2 3/4 cm X 2 1/2 cm (I know not much compared to some here). I asked about the location (surface, wall, lining) and he said mine incompasses all 3 and said that was more than likely the cause for my irregular bleeding. Well, I opted to have the IUD removed just to see what would happen. My feeling was that it was the IUD that was causing the problem. He immediately started talking hysterectomy and said the fibroid was more than likely due to my age. In my heart I don't want to have a hysterectomy. I mean I went through a lot just to be able to have my little girl by having my tubes reconnected. Since having the IUD removed, I had about a week of bleeding heavily, but it seems to have stopped now.
I'd love some input from you ladies that have experience with Fibroids and TTC. I don't know if I want to go through a surgery to remove the fibroid, since I've already had so many surgeries (3 c-sections, TR, and a procedure to open a blocked tube after the TR). I think I'd rather just take my chances and if we don't conceive, take that as a message that Ava is the only one we were supposed to have. Anyway, I hope to get some insite to this fibroid thing and any information you can share will definitely be appreciated. Thanks so much for allowing me to post.
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