Hey Patty, just a question, have u been on fertility friend with the same user name as u use here at SK's??

I was on FF the other day and I came across the same name and I was curious to know if u were both the same person

Also, I see that ur TR is coming up in a couple of months time, r u getting nervous at all yet or r u taking it as it comes??

Just remember that if u have any questions or concerns that I am here and am more than happy to answer any questions u may have on the procedure etc.....

BTW, how r u feeling, I hope ur feeling better than u were last week hon .

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I haven't been on Fertility Friends in a long time I really don't think I have posted there yet but I will have to go and check it out....how is the user name there?....is it pattync28610?

well I'm going to be going to Dr.Zbella for my tubal reversal surgery and I'm going to go on January 11th, 2008 because my husband isn't sure that he can get the loan from his work for $1400 so I want to make sure that we have enough money to pay for it so thats why I'm going with Jan. 11th because My husband did find out about the flex plan they have at his job and its for $3000 and it goes into effect January 1, 2008 we have to sign up for it on December 1, 2007.. yes its a few weeks longer but I don't want to stress and worry about not having enough money to finish paying for my surgery. so I hope that you all will help me get through the next 3 months 3 weeks...lol...please...

How are you feeling? I'm just tickeled pink that your baby is doing great that is truly a blessing from God. just know that I keep you and your baby in my thoughts and prayers...

Hope you have a wonderful and blessed day..I will check back online this afternoon..

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Patty. Time will go so fast, before you know it your TR will be upon you & you will be joining the land of the TTC. I am so excited for you! I can't wait to hear about your when you get it!!

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Thinking of you to patty.Have a good day.I cant wait to hear about your t/r and your ttc journey.

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I am glad that ur feeling better Patty .

Jan 11 will be here before u know it hon. I think u have a good plan, making sure u have the funds etc......

I was lucky, my TR did not cost me anything .

As for FF, I am not sure what the #'s were next to the name, but the name was definately pattync and that's why I thought it was u. If I come across the name again, I will check out what the #'s r .

Ladies, I wanted to see how your all doing....hope your having a wonderful weekend...god bless

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sorry, I forgot to add this to the message... I'm really going to need you all to get me through until Jan. 11th for my surgery...I guess apart of me feels like its never going to happen. I will be sending in My $500 deposit to the doctor and setting my appointment for Jan. 11th, 2008 so I just wanted to update on it....

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That is great Patty. I am sure that you will feel great once you have your deposit paid. I sure know it made it seem so real for me. I hope you are having a great weekend.

Dianne

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thanks Christina....

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Patty I forgot to tell you that you have a great looking family there.

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awww...thank you so much....you do to Christina....

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Yeah Patty, I love that pic in ur siggy, u all look so gorgeous and ur kids r beautiful .

Jan 11, 08 only 3 months to go hon and believe me, it will be here before u know it, especially once christmas is out of the way .

How r u doing by the way?? I love all the little cards/blinkees u put up hon ie: 'have a great weekend', they r so nice .

I bet ur looking forward to paying ur deposit, it will seem more real then, I am sure .

KUP ok hon .

Christina, I am thinking of u hon

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Hello everyone! My name is Lisa and I am 40 years old...will be 41 in November. My hubby is 35 years old and although he is a wonderful Step-Dad, he has no biological children of his own. I have two children, ages 20 and 15 from my previous marriage! I just had my TR done on 10/04/07 by Dr. Gary Berger in North Carolina. Luckily, I had 3 cms on the left and 4 cms on the right!! I felt lucky just having that much left after TR since I had bipolar cautery TL. I have to wait one cycle before TTC and well I am now at CD2....so I will be starting TTC this month!!

The reason I am posting is that I was doing a search of "TTC Blinkies & Graphics" and somehow I ended up here....how great was that?!! I just happen to scan down through the threads and saw this one...TTC after TR, etc. (You know that one caught my eye...LOL)!!

Right off, I noticed Pattync28610!!!! Patty....Now I know where you have been!!!! You were on Dr. Bergers message board up until about what....2 weeks ago??? I am just wondering Patty, who is going to do your TR? I saw where you had mentioned a Dr. in Tennessee and then a Dr. Zbella. I am soooo confused because on the day you said that you were using Dr. Zbella (9-21-07) you were also on Dr. Bergers website the same day??!! I did look back and the pic that you have posted here is the same pic of your sweet kiddos that you have posted on Dr. Bergers message board!! I was just a little concerned....I know some of the ladies have been asking about you in the Weight Loss thread....I thought Dr. Berger was going to do your surgery??!! I recall that you said that you were going to schedule in the Spring of 2008, once you got your BMI down. Just wanted to check in on you....I knew that name looked familar!!!!

Anyway...I think this is an awesome thread you ladies have. TR is such an awesome journey in itself....then comes the TTC journey!!! Well...I'm about to give it my 100%....wish me luck!!

To all of you ladies here TTC....tons and tons of baby dust to you!!!
To all of you ladies here already with a baby on the way...Best Wishes to You & a Healthy & Happy 9 months!
To all who are planning TR.....Best Wishes to you!!!

Lisa
TR 10/04/07...Dr. Berger, NC
This will be 1st month of TTC!!!!!
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Patty,
Hi! I'm new here and have JUST had my TR.... like last Friday.... I was in your shoes just a couple of weeks ago with the agony of waiting, so I completely understand what you are going through! And the other girls are right, it really does come up pretty fast. I know this sounds completely corny, but what got me through was a little catch phrase that I said to myself over and over again when I was feeling like it would never come.... "It will happen at the RIGHT time, maybe not right now, but when the time is RIGHT." It helped me remain calm! Best of luck to you with the day counting!
Terri

Yes i wanted to go to dr.Berger but I have to lose about 50 more pounds and I wanted to go there in december to have my surgery but there is no WAY to get this weight off of me before november 15th to pay for my surgery and to be able to schedule my surgery in December...do you see what I mean??? and with the doctor in tennesse I have to lose weight just to go with her also..but I have found that Dr.Zbella is ok with the current weight that I am at NOW!!!! do you see????? I'm so tired of trying to pick and choose which doctor I am going to go to...I want to make the right CHOICE....NOW if you have a problem with me not really knowing who I'm going to go with then I"M SORRY but its me not you that is dealing with this and with the money issue OK!!!!!....Don't try to come to this board or Dr.Berger's board and try to stir up anything...I'm just trying to FIGURE which one I'm going to go to...I haven't even paid Dr.Zbella any MONEY....IF I can get this weight off of me before November then YES i would love to go to Dr.Berger but I am one that struggles with WEIGHT!!!!!! I try to keep myself going by just hopeing for a goal and time and if I say its with dr.berger or with dr.zbella then just leave it at that..thats how I deal with things...I'm so sorry I'm not like you and can choose right then who I want to have my surgery with...the reason why I'm like this is because I have 2 failed attempts at going to Dr.Perez in Mexico and I lost ALOT of money so thats another reason why I'm like this OK!!!!!

Ladies here I'm so sorry for sounding ugly right now but I'm just so tired of everyone worrying or trying to make a negative thing out of which doctor that I might choose to go to...I know one group got mad at me just becuase I couldn't go to Dr.Perez and I lost around lets see the plane tickets for 2 were $748.20 and then 2 deposits of $565.00 each that I couldn't get back and then my deposit for my shuttle of $50.00 so thats why I'm just trying really hard to make the right choice and not lose anymore money....

I'm sorry ladies but that is getting to me that people just can't understand how I deal with this..

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Lisa, please forgive me for sounding ugly I'm not trying to be I just want you to see what I'm dealing with thats all...and also I never said anything about going to dr.berger in 2008 I said that I wanted to go in December of this YEAR.....

Lisa I wish you all the best of luck with getting your BFP..your a wonderful person and please try to understand...I feel like I'm a failure at trying to get this done..I can't get this weight off of me and its killing me becuase I can't...

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Patty I TOTALLY know how you feel. When I was looking into Dr. Berger I was told the same thing. They act like it is so easy to shead thw weight that we have. I am so sorry about all the money you lost in your first attempt. I really hope you get to feeling better hun. I have been in your shoes and I know it is not fun. Just try to ignore what other have to say. I do know that Dr. Bergers board is very clicky. And you have to be a client of his ar that you will be his to be a member.

Patty I really hope you have a great weekend.

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thanks Christina for understanding also..it means alot that someone else knows what I'm going through...and also Christina I hope that you also have a wonderful weekend...

Thanks

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Patty,
I am very sorry you are having theese problems.Its just not fair.My Doctor in Houston never said anything about weight to me.I think it is very unfair that weight is a issue with wanting to have another baby.Big Big hugs to you. I hope you a have a wonderful day.

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