Ok so tomorrow is the day for me Me and DH have been talking about how 3 months is soooooo long to wait. But....have noticed that there is alot of tubals or mc so just wondering for the ladies that have had this happen, how close to your TR did this happen??? I honestly don't know what I would do, it scares me, but I want this so bad. My thoughts are with all the families that have had to endure this.

I conceive my 5th cy post TLR. I M/C'd at 10 wks on my 41st birhday. This had been my 5th loss total. I conceived again 12 cys later. I'm sure my losses were chromosomal and age related as I am of AMA. It is scary though. You just need to presevere...... and pray. Good luck to you this cy.

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Where did I come from?" the baby asked its mother. She answered, half-crying, half-laughing, and clasping the baby to her breast: "You were hidden in my heart as its desire, my darling. You were in the dolls of all my childhood games. In all my hopes and my loves, in my life, in the life of my mother, and in her mother before her, you have lived."
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Mommyjac you always have kind words and thoughts of encouragement(sp). No matter what the question or comment is you always have something kind to say. It's appriciated (and very calming) just like a mommy should be huh

As Jacqueline says, most losses ARE chromosonal when they are before 12 weeks, and are not related to the reversal.

Some people try right away, but my RE said that he recommends all his patients wait for one full cycle after the reversal. Not just to help ensure that any tubal swelling is gone, but to make sure that your cycle has returned to normal. If your cycle has not returned to normal it can make tracking a pregnancy more difficult. (not knowing when ovulation occurred)

Basically, as soon as your first post reversal has shown, it is usually deemed safe to go right ahead and start trying. I had at the time of my surgery, she showed up the day before, so i allowed for one full cycle, and :Af showed up right on target, 28 days after my surgery,August 17th so that is the cycle we started trying. I got pregnant that cycle, but it was a chemical pregnancy, a few days of +hpts before af, and then the ol witch showed up.... the next cycle I got pregnant but had a very early miscarriage, then two cycles later I got pregnant and this time it was a sticky bean. So far so good !

m/c may seem more prominent amongst post reversal ladies, but it isnt. It is simply that we are trying harder and also testing earlier. Alot of miscarriages happen before the average woman would even know she is pregnant. upwards of 25% of all pregnancies end up as a miscarriage unfortunately.

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Aw, thanks

And I totally agree with everything above that Shilo said.

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Where did I come from?" the baby asked its mother. She answered, half-crying, half-laughing, and clasping the baby to her breast: "You were hidden in my heart as its desire, my darling. You were in the dolls of all my childhood games. In all my hopes and my loves, in my life, in the life of my mother, and in her mother before her, you have lived."
--Rabindranath Tagore

those are very comforting words, shilo! i was wondering the same thing myself and even brought it up to jason last night, as i had a miscarriage before each of my 2 kids. your answer makes a lot of us feel better.

Thank you guys so much for your knowledge. I am just on pins and needles today. Every imaginable thought is going through my head. Started bawling out of nowhere this morning, think I offended my DH as we had just BD. He's all "are u ok, why are you crying?" I'm like i don't know they just wont stop, think i'm just on emotional overlaod. So thank you everyone

good luck again for tomorrow! we will be thinking of you and looking forward to hearing from you when you feel well enough again!

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married 10 years
Me 32 DH 49
TTC#1
Low Count, ASA's present
IVF 12-07 BFN