OK this is kinda a graphic question but if DH and I BD when AF is here or just right after she leaves it hurts me it's like my insides are really tender. See DH is kinda more than well equipped for the job. Last night I finaly gave in to him and we BD i mean hey it was V-day you've got to BD with your husban on V-day but anyway it hurt like it dose after AF leaves. Then this morning after I got up I had to go to the bathroom and I had a BM and there was some blood in it. A few weeks ago right before AF showed I did the same thing and my mom told me that when she used to have cyst on her overys that when they would bust she would pass blood like that. Do you think that i may have cyst on my overys and thats why it hurts like it dose when DH and I BD sometimes and why I haven't gotten PG yet. If anybody has any answers or sujestions please let me know.

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I don't think a cyst on you ovary would cause blood in your stool. If you are having blood in your stool, perhaps something else is rubbing wrong when you BD. The wall between the vagina and anus is very thin. I would talk to a doctor as soon as you can about all these issues. You may want ot start a medical question journal so you don't forget anything.
(A graphic question deserves a graphic answer!)

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A hard BM can cause a littel blood in your TP after a BM. If the blood was bright red, then it was prob a little "pile" or "hemaroid" that the BM irritated on the way out, not so unusual if your diet is not all that stellar. If it happens more than rarely or if you see dark (old) blood in the stool then you got trouble and should get to the doc right away. Got to Web MD.com and look at the symptoms of hemmaroids and alternatively colon cancer. You will see the difference between constipation and big trouble.

Thank you guys i'll go look into it and see what I can come up with.

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Well, I have been having pain after intercourse for years now. I had a lot of tests and stuff done and basically they have no idea why. I had a full work-up to be sure and I went on the have a sucessful pregnancy. My GYN did tell me that there are different hormones being released during different times of your cycle and those could be causing the problem. He put me on some medicine that I took 10 days before my period was supposed to start. It did help but I stopped taking it when we started trying to concieve - they were supposedly safe but who really knows for sure so I stopped taking them. I would definately tell your OB and have he/she do a work up. (Oh, my tests did show I have an overy that lies behind my uterus but no one was worried about it.) I have always felt that it had something to do with my weight. The funny thing is, the less I weigh the more pain I have. As for the blood in the BM, are you sure where it came from? I would try to check really carefully after the next time you DTD to make certain where it is coming from. I have had a little blood in mine if I have had big stools. Excuse me if this is TMI, but if DH bumps or pokes in the wrong opening (even just a little), it can make your anus bleed. I hope this helps. E

Well DH dosen't get any where nere my other hole I tell him that is an exit only not an entrence. But he still keeps wanting to try it but I keep telling him NOOOO. I only seem to have pain with DH no other guy I was ever with coused me to have any pain like that. It dosen't hurt every time either just every now and then so I don't know what is going on. The Dr. told my friend that the reason it hurt was because DH was to big but you would think after over a year I would be used to him and it wouldn't hurt anymore. As for as the blood in my stool I haven't had anymore since the other day and it's not because it's to big most of the time it only happens when it's kinda a loose BM. It's happen to me before when I was younger and they didn't know why it happened but if I do it again any time soon i'll go back to the Dr. and see if they can figger out now whats going on.

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LOL about the exit not entrance remark. My DH accidentally got me there once in his haste and I about catapulted off of the bed. I know there are people that enjoy that but golly I didn't find it too pleasureable. DH has been very, very careful since then. I hope you figure out what is up. I have a comment on the "big" issue but am too embarassed to reply in public. E-mail me if you want. E

One thing that came to mind when I read your opening post was that perhaps he is hitting your cervix. Perhaps right around AF your cervix is in lowest position. One thing I learned from the book TCOYF is that around ovulation your cervix is high and soft then after ovulation it gets lower and harder.

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