Hi! I know this is completely off the subject but I really need to heaar some unbias advice! Here's the situation........... My husband's family does not associate with each other for nothing not even holidays!! My brother-in-law is marrying the 20 year old he got pregnant (he's 40) The wedding was like a last minute thing and her brother is best man My husband was then asked to be in the wedding Ok now comes the tricky part they have thus far not included him in anything they even went and picked the tuxes without him yesterday! Today he comes home and says he has to be fitted by next friday for the wedding!!! I don't want to go because there will be noone I know except for my husband and brother-in-law I'm serious not ONE person!!! I have met the future bride one time for 10 minutes when I went to pick my husband up from work!! The next tricky part the bride to be's parents own the place where my husband and brother-in-law work!!! I don't know what to do because DH will be with bridal party all day and I will be alone no one else in the family is going to the wedding! My DH is afraid to back out because of his job and making his brother mad but he doesn't even want to go to the bachelor party!!!What would you do in this situation??? I have been with my husband for 9 years this past august and his brother has been to our home once and i can honestly say I have seen my brother-in-law maybe 30 times!!! So it's not like we are even close!! I feel like they used my DH as a fill in and don't want to fight with him but what do you do??? How do you tell someone they are just being used???Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!! Thanks for listening to me whine!!

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I personally would just suck it up and go. My husband's side of the family is not close at all either and his broth my BIL I've only met and or seen less then 10 times and that is being generous. We know my BIL is going to get married sometime soon we think (or at least hope).

It is their wedding so if they pick things out without DH or other people I suppose it's their choice.

Plus if this is the one big thing they do as a family then you might not have to do anything else big for a very long time after this one, LOL

Good Luck!

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Ditto, I would suck it up as well and go. Just do it for your family because he needs you there.