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Hardest decision I ever took...

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Old 07-14-2006, 10:53 AM
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Default Hardest decision I ever took...

Well, it's official DH and I have decided to stop TTC for right now. We are "off the market".

We looked into our finance and we can't afford to add any more expenses right now. Dh and I are just too tired, physicaly and mentaly. We noticed that we have lost each other and what our relationship was before this whole TTC started... almost 5 years ago. We are also getting more and more responsabilities right now at work (we are both up for amazing promotions and cannot afford to be away or taking time off for appoinments...not like IUI will needs).

Right now, we are thinking of 6 months break and then revisit our decision regarding our TTC journey. I think that very possibly we are going to adopt.

I'll won't be posting much, maybe just to give you updates from time to time

Well, I have to stop writing about it right now otherwise , I will fall apart in my office.
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Old 07-20-2006, 11:24 PM
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Default Re: Hardest decision I ever took...

Hey Nanou,

I'm sorry you guys were forced to make a choice. That just sucks. I hope that you can reconnect with DH over the next 6 months to a year. This TTC stuff, even thinking about TTC, definitely takes it's toll.

If you start TTC in 6 months - 1 year, we might be trying around the same time. Hope to see you when I'm back here, too.
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Old 07-21-2006, 07:41 PM
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Default Re: Hardest decision I ever took...

So sorry you had to make that decision! We did the same thing about a year ago!! It sometines just becomes too much everywhere emotionally, financially and mentally! If you haven't been there I don't think you could understand!! We will be trying clomid again in a few days unmonitored because we can't afford 6 ultrasounds in two weeks so I guess we will see what happens anyways just wanted to say hang in there!!
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