Well, it's official DH and I have decided to stop TTC for right now. We are "off the market".

We looked into our finance and we can't afford to add any more expenses right now. Dh and I are just too tired, physicaly and mentaly. We noticed that we have lost each other and what our relationship was before this whole TTC started... almost 5 years ago. We are also getting more and more responsabilities right now at work (we are both up for amazing promotions and cannot afford to be away or taking time off for appoinments...not like IUI will needs).

Right now, we are thinking of 6 months break and then revisit our decision regarding our TTC journey. I think that very possibly we are going to adopt.

I'll won't be posting much, maybe just to give you updates from time to time

Well, I have to stop writing about it right now otherwise , I will fall apart in my office.

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Anick (31) , Luc (33)
Fur baby Cachou
12 cycles of Clomid 50mg, all
Diagnosed with PCOS - Jan.2006
On break for 6 months

Hey Nanou,

I'm sorry you guys were forced to make a choice. That just sucks. I hope that you can reconnect with DH over the next 6 months to a year. This TTC stuff, even thinking about TTC, definitely takes it's toll.

If you start TTC in 6 months - 1 year, we might be trying around the same time. Hope to see you when I'm back here, too.

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Me -29 DH - 32
Married June 13, 2003
Completely anovulatory without meds
10/07 - 12/07 50mg Clomid,
12/07 - DH's SA all normal!
2/21/08 - RE consult
3/08 100mg clomid cd3-7, no follicles, cycle cancelled
4/08 - 150mg clomid cd3-7, u/s on cd14, 1 follicle @ 24mm, trigger shot on cd14 and timed bd,
5/08 - HSG looks good
6/08 - IUI+INJ,
7/08 - IUI+INJ

So sorry you had to make that decision! We did the same thing about a year ago!! It sometines just becomes too much everywhere emotionally, financially and mentally! If you haven't been there I don't think you could understand!! We will be trying clomid again in a few days unmonitored because we can't afford 6 ultrasounds in two weeks so I guess we will see what happens anyways just wanted to say hang in there!!

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