AF Gal (Kerry)

Meg · #1 (**permalink**) 09-19-2007, 06:45 AM

Where you been girl?
How's things?

Miss you around here.

- your original Cycle Buddy

AirForceWife2007 · #2 (**permalink**) 09-19-2007, 07:00 AM

Hey Meg. Long story but I'm now posting under this sn. No more afgal for me. Anyway I haven't been on much. Today was the first day I've temped for most of this cycle. How are things with you?

Kerry your original cycle buddy.

Tkeys · #3 (**permalink**) 09-19-2007, 07:02 AM

She is now AirForceWife2007 . . . I think she still checks in over here, but she occasionally posts on the TTC - Cycle buddies board and the Preparing to TTC (check the weekly thread for her updates).

Tkeys · #4 (**permalink**) 09-19-2007, 07:02 AM

Oops . . . sorry, Kerry! You beat me to it!

I'm glad to see you checking in . . .

AirForceWife2007 · #5 (**permalink**) 09-19-2007, 07:09 AM

I just happened to be snooping around when I saw it. I've made piece with all this TTC craziness and I'm at a good place with it. We are no longer in a rush to conceive so it will happen when the time is right.

AirForceWife2007 · #6 (**permalink**) 09-19-2007, 07:10 AM

Man that's peace not piece. LOL!

Tkeys · #7 (**permalink**) 09-19-2007, 07:31 AM

I'm glad you are feeling better about things. I've been worried about you and hoping you get to a better place. This process is definitely so difficult - we've only been trying a few months, but I'm so frustrated with my body, and disappointed every month when it doesn't happen, so I'm definitely sympathetic. This month I'm on Clomid, and I don't even seem to be O'ing!

I guess all I can say is that the only way to do this is to have a good attitude, and know that it happens when it happens. At the same time, I personally believe there is nothing wrong with finding out if there are any problems, too, when the time is right. Sometimes, there is nothing wrong, and all we can do is wait. And sometimes, there are explanations for why things aren't happening. You'll know what is best for you on this journey if you follow your heart! I guess they always say good things are worth waiting for . . . and I can't imagine a better thing than becoming a parent. So, until I get my chance, I'll be here waiting & hoping with everyone else!

Sorry I hijacked your thread, Meg . . . I'll go away and let you & Kerry catch up!

Meg · #8 (**permalink**) 09-19-2007, 03:37 PM

HAHA no worries

Well, I am glad to know your new sn and where to look for you, Kerry.
And I am happy to hear you and DH are at a peaceful place in this difficult journey. Like TKeys said -- we only know what is the right path is as we come to forks in the road along the way.

For us, the break DH and I had to take last cycle (August) was the best thing that could've happened for us. Having that time off to put aside thoughts of baby-making was really beneficial for us. When we were together sexually, it was for no other reason than the fact that we are so crazy about each other. And thats something, that after so many cycles of trying, can tend to get complicated.

I know it will happen for all of us.
There are always options girls!

I will look for you around, Kerry!
I'm not on here nearly as much as I used to be either. I have found that I really do much better when I don't focus as much attention on TTC. But I do like to check in and follow my buddies so this will always be a place I come back to.
One day I will pop into 2ww and find out that we are ALL over on some "Due In ___" boards! OH HAPPY DAY

Anyway.
I'll be talking to ya...Meg
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