hi! im new to all this. im not sure where exactly to post this, so i guess i will start here, i know i ovulated, i felt it, thats the only thing i am sure of. im 36 and not trying to conceive, not that it would be a bad thing, ok this is whats going on. i have never really monitored my o time. i had a really bad cyst in feb so i started monitoring my cycles more to have some kind of idea after i spotted and thought i was pg after having numerous symptoms. the cyst ruptured (OWWWWW!!!!) and i went back to normal. so me and my friend you know one of those lover friends(we care about eachother just dont know if we are right for eachother) got a little too drunk (i had alot going and i needed to unwind, didnt mean to get that drunk)and hooked up, now the thing is, he didnt finish inside me, but i know that there is a chance of leakage in preejaculate.(im really not trying to sound stupid lol!). i just dont know how much of a chance. i didnt even realize it until i felt the ovulating the next day and looked it up online when i was suppose to that i had sex on my most fertile day before i ovulated. weird stuff has really been going on and im not sure what to think, and after that horrible cyst issue im trying to get ahead of myself with these symptoms. 3dpo friday, very tired, stayed in and slept, started having cramping and nausea, sore boobs and i thought was a migrane headache,4dpo was awful cramps hit really hard, so hard i had to lay down. i had stabbing pains in my sides and twinges that went away, nausea, sore nipples,really really tired, craving mcdonalds hot fudge sundae as i am now. i stayed in and slept, woke up around 330 am or so when roomie got home and felt like i was gonna throw up he got me some pop and i felt a little bit better went back to sleep. so now today dpo5, woke up nausous,cramps were insane, felt like someone put a brick on my abdomen, i am big time bloated.very very moody, and emotional, its been from one aspect to another first im ready to hit someone then i hold my macaw and i want to cry cuz i love her so much. i decided to stay home instead of going to familys cuz i have been so irritable, im very tired, as i am typing this its not nearly as bad as it was before, the cramping has calmed down, it does feel like the first day af cramps though, and i have a wet creamy cm, i was itchy yesterday down there but now im not anymore. oh i have been having a runny nose on and off and some gas and really bad indigestion that pepto bismal helped, that really hurt. it feels different then the cyst other than the pressure on my abdomen. i got the symptoms after i spotted for my period. my period is due on the 17th. could these be pms symptoms just worse then normal? is there a chance i could be pg? i need some advice!

3dpo is too soon to feel pregnant.

You may have been sick or because you realized it was possible, giving yourself preganancy syptoms. Last cycle I really thought I was pregnant by the way I was feeling. No such luck. Just bad PMS I guess.

Hope things turn out ok.

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it could be just bad pms. the only thing going on right now is that im STARVING and am ready to attack my steak that i need to cook, and my boobs hurt. so im not worried, im thinking more along the lines of stress and bad pms. i will let you guys know!!!

more updating

today is 11dpo, early this morning 3am sharp stabbing pains in right side after i did some light walking, had to lay down. woke up nausious as hell, ate something and was so tired i couldnt get out of bed. finally made myself get up around 330 or so. hiccups all darn day on and off, very very very insanely tender and sore nipples. im gonna have to take the sweater off because they are stinging, feel like they are on fire. and thats it. no cramping at all today, have a yellow discharge, and just major tired. i did one test on 10dpo and it was neg. im gonna wait and see if i get my af and then go get a test if i dont.

just posting another update yesterday 12dpo ketchup which i love tasted awful, i was very gassy, bloated and puffy face, clothes are a little tighter, cramping on and off, no period smell. certain foods make me sick to my stomach, very moody and bitchy, but earlier for dinner at this diner, cheese fries which i accidently got, i mean cheese on the buger were the most amazing thingh i have EVER tasted!~ i dont think anything ever tasted that good. and red onions tasted flat. i normally love them.
13dpo today early at like 2am, or so, my roommate cooked quesadillas and i thought i was gonna gag, it was horrible smelling, i had to open windows, i was very very nausous, he looked at me funny and i told him the smell was making me sick to my stomach.
today i broke down and cried with the thought of my macaw leaving me, the love was so strong, both macaws actually preened my tears and that made me cry more. im still ready to cry,and am nausous and want to sleep. the dizziness is insane, also have twingy pains in right ovary side. no major cramps just light ones. most of it today has been twinges,

not certain I would sugest maybea pregnancy test at this stage if af doesn't show if that is negative and you think you may have cyst, contact your Dr. for tests... good luck...

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well i did a test from the dollar store and it was negative, still no period, it is due today, and i know today isnt over with. the only symptoms i have now are really tired and really really sore bbs, the sides hurt if i brush my arm against it, and my nipples are super sore and sensitive. woke up with nausea and exhaustion. i have 2 extra tests for later in the week if need be.

15dpo no period, dark blue veins are showing in my right breast, and my areola is getting a dark blotchy circle around it, alot of dizziness and gagging, dry heaving, cramps on and off. pinching and pulling type of pains. everyone i have talked to said to test on friday, and then tues. i am now 2 days late.

Any update??

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11 days late, the possible father knows i may be pg. we havent really talked alot. negative test. major nausous so bad that its really hard to do anything during the day. durning the night im fine until early morning. major dizzy now. its very hard to eat. not sure when i posted here last but, i had 4 days of spotting, at first is was a very very light flow with no clots or lining stuff. then it turned brown. and went away. im having very strange cramping, not period cramps but like very light menstrural cramps that will hit and go away and hit and go away. it feels like when i was pregnant more. im gonna hae to have a doctor check this out. im so darn dizzy. i have been eating weird things only at night, i cant really eat during the day. the nausea hits really bad then. i am very emotional and been crying about everything. my face has broken out. oh and the moodiness and lack of patience, i snap so easily on people. i really dont feel well at all. i have living on soda crackers and lemon lime soda. i dont know whats going up, right now i just have to wait to see a doctor. this exactly what i went through in the past. so im not sure if im hormonal or what. my amazon parrot who i i love smells, she hsa a musty smell and its horrible to smell right now. certain those dont have taste like peanut butter and jelly and some cereal, takes like nothing. some stuff tastes like its amazing like cheese, and hot fudge sundaes. the other day i had a nice craving for pickles. i just had anxiety attack so i know i have to quit panicking. i have no ins. and have to wait 2 weeks late to get call to get an apt. i did a work at home job,did training start monday.