I realize that it may seem crazy but I think I am going to stop charting this month. I am driving Dh and I both insane with this. We got pg within a month with dd and we just dtd every few days. I really wanted to chart so we could try for a boy but this has taken all the fun out of it for us. Dh and I had a long talk about this today and I think that all the obsessing about *when* to dtd is killing our game lol. We had so much fun when we were trying for dd that this time around it has just seemed strained. I tried charting for a month and so I am thinking that this month we will try the other way. Who cares if it doesn't give us the same odds are getting a boy if its not fun why are we doing it right? This has but a huge strain on our relationship and that really sucks. I will still be around but I am going to try and not chart. I tried charting this month but not obsessing and for me the two just go together. Good luck and I will still be on but not with a current chart. Who knows this may make me crazier lol

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First of all, I have to say that you must continue to post because your siggy is so adorable!

I understand how you feel. There is so much pressure we put on ourselves sometimes. I'm sure I will be approaching your situation soon-my dh is very supportive and interested, but when bd is maticulously timed, as you said, can be a game killer!

I hope you still post, because you are always so encouraging and positive! I need more of your advice!

Have a relaxing time away from charting-even if it's only for a few days

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I'm sorry, but I totally understand, it's easy to go crazy while charting
I did respond to your other post, sorry AF came, but it ended up on another BOARD! , yeah, I must have been tired, LOL

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Thanks for the support! I didn't think I would get so crazy about all this but its like I can't help myself lol. Now I just need to write down when Af came and went b/c I get bad at that then I forget how long before she is due again. Its like I have two extreams! Good luck this month Summer I hope this is it for you!

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and good luck to you!

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I love your new siggy pic, it's too cute!

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Thanks my dad took thaty pic of her while I was working the other day, I think she is putting her "babies" in timeout lmao

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