Ok, well, first off, you were sick, so that probably delayed your ovulation(and gave you some false high temps...I've been watching your chart...yes I'm a chart stalker ) Looks to me like you O'd on CD 20, and having ovarian twinges on one or both sides for several days before hand is pretty normal(I get them as much as 3 days before and one day after, some cycles) and if you do ovulate 2 eggs(2 from one or one from each) it is within 24 hours, because after that your body is producing progesterone which tells the ovaries to stop producing eggs(except in rare genetical deformities, which is called super fetation and to my knowledge has never been proven)

Anyway, as for the dtd, it's not showing on your chart, for me, you have to go to your *home page setup* and mark the box next to *Publish Intercourse Data* but up to 5 days can happen, but 3 days is a better time frame, for TTC. However, Malachi is proof that 6 days before hand works too I also have a friend with a 7 day beforehand, so don't count yourself out yet

As for me, I really thought last cycle, that we would be expecting, but alas AF found me, and early, so now I'm on cd 14, and perhaps O'ing *on time* for the first time in a lot of years

Hey! Thanks for all the info, as always. I feel so special, I have a stalker! I fixed my chart to include DTD info...I'm kinda excited that there's still a chance. Between DH being reluctant and me being sick, we didn't DTD as much as we should have, but Elise is also proof-positive that ONE time is all it takes.

Bummer about AF finding you, but hopefully since it sounds like you are regulating, it'll happen SOON! There's still a chance we'll be due together again at the same time! LOL

I'll have to hang out here more, since I have a stalker...gotta make it easy on you!

Amy

ROFL! Yup, you still have a good chance, only 3 days before! And fertile fluid between those days is a good sign too

Ever since I started looking into charting, and doing it(with my SIL who TTC for almost 3 years) I've been addicted, and love to help others with it, when I can I get on and check charts every morning, when I'm nursing Hannah and the kiddies are eating breakfast My dh isn't sure about the next one right now with the move and everything, so we kinda prevented this month I would elaborrate on that but it's probably way TMI anyway

ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So my temp dipped today. Take a look, if you haven't already!

What the heck is going on? It's stressing me out...I guess sometimes ignorance is bliss! LOL No, seriously, what is going on?

I hear ya on preventing...hence the reason my chart only has one DTD marked on it.

Amy

Could be one of two things, a fallback rise(where the temp dips the day after the rise, but then goes back up the following day) or you still didn't O. The signs are good for O, unfortunately all you can do is wait. Gotta love all the waiting, huh? We wait to O, wait for the rise, wait to test, then wait for AF or wait for baby

This is driving me crazy! But thanks for the info. I have no idea what is going on, but we'll wait and see. In the mean time, thanks for getting me addicted. I'm going to send you my therapy bills!

Amy

Yup waiting sucks, LOL! Yup...gonna....need....therapy.........too...

So it was up again today (although none of my temps have been all that high), so maybe I did O. Who knows? FF isn't marking it as an O yet...maybe one more day of a higher temp will make it mark it for day 20?

Off to my therapy appt!

Amy