of peace and quiet left...until Zaris daddy is released from prison in AZ and makes his way back to MI. I already see cars like his and get chills up my spine and my heart races.I know he won't leave me alone.....I am dreading June 11!

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Co-Hostess of Interracial/Intercultural Families

Are you going to let him come around and see her? How long has he been in prison?

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I want him nowhere near me or Zari (or my other kids) he is evil...seriously. He did 9 years, got out in 3-05 and I met him in May 05. I didn't know for the first few weeks he had been in prison and that he was on parole. I was already pg with Zari when I got the "whole truth"....or what he sees as truth.
He went back to prison on 9/24/06 for a parole violation (he violated a few times due to dirty drops, but was supposed to be in a drug class..he kept "forgetting" and was pulled over for drunk driving that night..oh and posessing drug paraphenelia) He will be released free and clear on June 11 this year!

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Co-Hostess of Interracial/Intercultural Families

What are you going to do? I would be nervous to. Does he know you are pregnant again? Does he want you back? Hopefully he has a place to live and wont come banging on your door. Have you spoke to him while he has been in prison? Sometimes (very rare occasions) people can change while in prison...find God...or something???? Usually they find God in prison, but forget all about him the second they are released.

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At first I was writing to him...but he hasn't changed and won't. I stopped all contact, he still writes here and there. He doesn't know I am pg again. He was writing me all these love letters and how he was going to be this and that...blah, blah. He's jealous and he would write "you better not be messing around"...whatever. This dum-dum is MARRIED!!!!!!!!!! He married some woman while I was pg with Zari...he asked me and I said "hell no". He wants me back, and his wife back and his girlfriends back and all the crackwhores too!

I was 6 months pg when he got married to the woman he had been seeing for almost the entire time I knew him. I met him a few weeks before her. He continued to see us both, then hid his marriage from me and tried to get back with me after the baby was born...he even said "If I divorce this ho will you marry me?". I said no once and I meant it.

He sucks the life out of people. He uses women up and then walks away when they have nothing to offer him anymore. He is a drug addict as well as a con artist and drug dealer. He is awful.

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Co-Hostess of Interracial/Intercultural Families

Sounds like a great guy....NOT! Do you mind me asking what you saw in him in the first place? Im not judging just curious.....

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When I first met him I had just lost 115 lbs. I was dating a few guys, ironically the other two guys were a parole officer and a Detroit cop! LOL I was just dating (not sleeping with). Don (zaris daddy) lied about his past, was so wonderful to begin with, he'd take me to dinner, art fairs, he danced in the street with me, helped me with a $270 bill, brought me roses, would buy the kids lunch and bring it over. He was so romantic and sweet. Our very first date was in the park. He had has his son (12yo) and I had all mine and he brought them all water guns to run around and play with. He'd come over after work and go walking with me. He brought me gifts like jewelry, jewelry boxes, clothes, money. He'd take me shopping, buy me groceries, he BBQ'ed a whole dinner so he could meet my brothers.

He is a con artist. He sucks single mothers in and then uses them. I was lonely when I met him and it felt so good to go out, be told I was pretty and just be wanted. He swept me off my feet and then dropped me on my ***.

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Co-Hostess of Interracial/Intercultural Families

OMG...what a PIG!!! The twins dad is very similiar to that....he is a very good looking guy, super sweat, smart....the real guy came out after the twins were born. Thats ok....Im so over him!!!

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