For me talking is very tiring and its a lot easier to show love than speak. Its something that I do have to work on and thru Gods grace it will come about, but if im honest apart from a few people the desire isnt 100% there. There is one person where its incredibly difficult, and God is moving, but the time its taking is very frustrating and difficult at times

Its just having patience.
Read in a book called "If you want to walk on the water you've got to get out the boat" that if you arent being challenged in some way in life then something isnt right in your relationship with God. I think thats true. We're never to be confortable in God, we should always be being called to enlarge our comfort zones.
God bless,
Matthew