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Old 02-21-2008, 11:52 PM
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Default why does my mom do this -makes no sense

mom makes fun of my clothes but she buys them for me because she thinks they will look nice and then as soon as i wear them she is stating my clothes i wear is why no one wants to be my friends and they are being chased away because of my style ,she gets so cranky and acts hurts if I don't try them or wear them then I get to listen to her 'blah blah's whines of how she is trying to improve my style 'sigh' . I'm already self concious of my speech even though i try to be confident but with speech issues at the beginning i'm pretty quiet and shy if they have trouble hearing me


then she thinks my boy has any kind of illness or tries to say he's allergic to the cat and she calls me paranoid just because i want my boy to be careful.

She whines he don't clear off his whole plate but i tell her its a new generation -we don''t make kids clear off their plates and i told her the dietician and the teacher say don't worry-i bring her papers she don't read them and plus she assumes i lie to the wic ppl what he eats-she's not with him for all the time-besides she assumes I filling him with sugary junk every day -she whines when i get one 2 liters of pop or 2 chocolate bars .

she assumes if he doesn't pee alot a sign of dehydration or if he pees too much she assumes its diabetes or a uti and I tell her -pee flunctates of and on


if he sleeps too much assumes low blood sugar-which i tell her poor kid is worn out from his excitement

she wonders why my place is not spic and span its like she forgotten about kids at home even after I lived with her after i left my son's father she saw huge messes and I'm like thinking she's hallucinating when she had cleaned her kitchen for 4 n half hrs.
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Old 04-17-2008, 04:06 PM
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Default Re: why does my mom do this -makes no sense

I suppose your mom worries and has her own insecurities that she is trying to hide. Sometimes a person diverts their attention to other things to avoid the obvious. My mother obsesses over every small insignificant thing so she dont have to think about what she doesnt like about her ownself. I have learned just to go on and not let it bother me though. After I stopped caring what she thought so much she kinda eased up on obsessing over me and my life.

Cute little boy by the way.
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