Who wants a part time boyfriend??? NOT

Dimples1005 · #1 (**permalink**) 02-10-2006, 11:07 PM

Who want's a part time boyfriend? NOT ME! I'm so sick of his crap. We've been together since Oct 2002. When I met him he told me up front he had a son. I didn't think that would be a problem. Well 3 years later I have a baby for him. Guess what his son still doesn't know about me or his sister. The part that really gets me pissed is that the only time we have to be together is when he doesn't have his son or when his son is sleep. Which turns out to be anytime after 10 pm or every other weekend. So you see my frustration right??? So finally tonight I told him no more. I do not need a part time boyfriend. I deserve a full time boyfriend. I'd rather be by myself than to do this anymore. Oh and his reason for not involving us (me and the baby) is that he doesn't know how his son will react. WHATEVER! Oh and the reason his son doesn't know who I am he never properly introduced us. He claims that his son's mother is going to get NASTY with him and take him to court. Ain't this point what else can be done??? He already pays child support and has his son 98% of the time. Please someone respond help me see the light...

jacie · #2 (**permalink**) 02-11-2006, 05:26 PM

The relationship you are in seems very unhealthy for yourself and your child. This man is obviously not commited to you or your child if he will not even admit that you exist. The way he is treating you is extremely disrespectful. I know this must be hard to hear, but unless he steps forward and declares to the world that you are his s/o and the most important person in his life you need to move on and find someone who will treat you with some dignity.

BooBooKItty · #3 (**permalink**) 02-15-2006, 10:24 PM

Why did you stay with him that long then have a kid with him knowing what he was like and that his son didn't know anything about you? No offense, really, but to me it sounds like you are just a booty call to him. I would start setting up childsupport payments yourself and please choose a better partner next time, you have a baby to think about now.

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