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I was with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. He wanted a baby I didn't so we had a baby...things were fine until I was 3-4 months pg. He starts being hateful and nasty...pushing, shoving, throwing things at me. Just being your average a***ole. should have left then right? but no...I stayed and stayed. I have the baby he doesn't stay w/me @ the hospital. I come home the next day and then I'm so F***ing lazy. why haven't i cleaned the house,made some dinner. no i just sit on my a** with the baby.should've left then but...the baby is two weeks old andhe's throwing me out of the house if I don't start paying some goddamn bills and so he drives me to a strip club (note: my stitches haven't even healed yet.)and left me there told me he'd be back in 8 hours and i better have some money. should have left then. three days later he does the same thing but beats the hell out of me first. broke a few bones & bruised me all up. I got out the car grabbed my baby girl and walked in the club to call the cops...I finally left.
I am so sorry you had to g through all of this. He is NOT a man you should be with. Don't worry about what did happen. You are out now. Think of what you ccan do to make your life better for you and your child.
So sorry you had to go through all of that. I'm so glad that you got yourself out of that situation before it got even worse than it was. you are doing the right thing!!
OMG, I couldn't beleive my eyes when I read your post. I am SOOOO GLAD that you did get out and walk away! GOOD FOR YOU!!! That is a horrible way to live and he is a HORRIBLE person! You absolutely did the right thing! I can't beleive he even made you take the baby! I can't beleive that he even drove you there! I'm so mad, I wish I lived by you so I could beat the hell out of HIM!!! I can't stand liars, thieves, cheats or women beaters! Sorry, I kind of get carried away when I see or hear of stuff like that! GOOD FOR YOU (once again)! Oh, and congrats on that little precious bundle of joy!
I went through a similar situation. I'm glad you left.
I should've left along time before I finally did also.
If you want to talk PM me.
I hope your life is filled with happiness now. Just you and your babygirl.