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Old 04-30-2008, 09:36 PM
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Default I am starting to REALLY not like him.

** WARNING. Biotch fest ahead. I got a little carried away, but I had to write it all out. Thanks! **

My husband is such a damn liar. He is the type that tells you what you want to hear, like you aren't going to find out otherwise. I cannot express how tired I am of him lying to me about little things.

Example. Last night, instead of me cooking, he wanted pizza. I HATE spending $25+ to eat supper in my own damn home, but I let him. He told me that he would take out the pizza boxes from the last time, along with the GD McDonald's bags. This place is so damn messy, and it is his fault. I know, I stay at home 4 days a week. But still - I would appreciate that lazyass picking up after himself! My God, put your underwear in a pile in the hall if you can't make the hamper! Lazy SOB. I am so tired of underwear and socks. I think I'll throw em all away. He can be one stinky footed free-baller for all I care!

Anyway, as always, I have to order the pizza (he really is that lazy). I ate none of it, cause I don't like pizza. Where are the boxes over 24 hours later? Where are the McDonald's bags? In my living room, scattered on the couch, and folding trays. The old boxes are in the kitchen on the counter. On the floor are THREE bags of garbage that he said he would take out. It's not that I am not able, I just wish he wouldn't lie to me. I know that he has absolutely no intention of doing anything, so why do I even bother. When will I learn not to ask anything of him? I am soooooo tired! Tired of it! He is a nice guy, and we love each other. But I can't put up with too much more of a liar.

And you know what he does instead? He plays World of Warcraft. Just like Kristen was talking about the friends? That's my husband. He doesn't want to get the baby out of the swing when she wakes up, doesn't want to put the paci back when it falls out, won't change a diaper without an act of Congress. And no lie, some days he won't hold her when he gets home. He'd rather play. He doesn't play the whole time he's online. The other portion of the time is spent of sites about WoW. Strategy? I dunno.

So when I was cooking supper I see all this mess and it makes me MAD. He calls out from the living room, asking me to rub his back and feet. "Sure." I say. I'm NOT going to do it. I can play that game too. Just now he begged me, and I told him as soon as he did what he said he would do. And now he's mad at me! AHHH!

Thanks. I REALLY needed to say that to someone other than my mom. I don't like to gripe about him to her.
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Old 05-04-2008, 04:25 PM
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I totally can relate!! My fiancee is the same way! He'll pour himself a glass of milk every night before bed and splash it on the counter and won't wipe it up or all the trash bins will be over flowing and no he can't just take out the garbage when he sees it! I swear I do it every week! Plus, when ever he drinks in our bedroom, he'll leave his glasses on his night stand and it just builds until I bring them down, right now theres like 5 on his dresser and night stand! So, I live with a slob as well! He just recently started doing the wash, but only because he needed a pair of pants!
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Old 06-01-2008, 05:05 PM
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That's sad I wonder if they are like that because their mom's hated the messes and picked up after them I'm not a very organized gal even though I try to do better since I have had my boy but its like I don't know or rather wait for someone to help me clean up because i get so tired of people not seeing what i get to put up with with my boy who does make heck of messes and won't even bother to pick them up today btw he just flooded the bathroom while i was cooking a under 5 minute meal to make and the whole floor was flooded . I'm like what how could this happen so quickly & he knows he wasn't supposed to be playing with water or turning on the sink but he did it anyways.
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Old 06-19-2008, 08:59 AM
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It seems like alot of men are this way..It must be in the genes, cuz mine won't pick up either, and I'm kinda anal about the way the house looks so I end up doing it and nagging about it..Go figure..I'm sorry to see others go through this, but at least I know I'm not alone
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Old 09-15-2008, 11:35 AM
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Default Re: I am starting to REALLY not like him.

You need to start making his life difficult. Chew him out about the mess persistently. Maybe create your own Warcraft character and harass him there. Be the Nag Dragon. His life sounds nice and easy, playing games, ignoring reality, with junk food on demand.

At least he's not drinking, but it's not much better when he ignores his own child to play dungeons&dragons. If he gets a pass to be this way, he might never realize that the things that matter are not online.

Look, I had to leave my "baby daddy" because he was spending too much time at the bar with the boys, which is another place away from what really matters. That was hell. So give him a hard time, he deserves it, you don't.
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