I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. For some reason, every time we start to have sex, I ask him to er. put his hand "down there" (idk if i'm allowed to say that on here) and do me the same favor I'm doing him, but often he refuses. He says he is just "ready to get it on" or something of that nature. He also never goes down on me. I don't really know what I should do. I'm just frustrated I guess. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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