I have proof my husband has been intending on cheating. I hate confrontations, but I also don't want to lose him. Any advice, I'm really broken up about this. thanks

Wow, I am sorry! I don't think that you have any choice but to talk to him about this. I hope it works out for you. You will have some work to do if you are to repair this wound.

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I'm sorry honey, I think you need to talk to him about it. If you don't he very well may go through with it. I really hope everything woks out for you.

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Oh I am so sorry sweety! You have to talk to him, there doesn't seem to be anyother way forwhat you have said. Good luck!

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ita!! You may need to confront him on this situation.. I know it hurts badly but you need to get your feelings and thoughts out.. Sorry your going through this anything i can do just let me know ((( HUGS))

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I agree...you need to confront him. If you don't mind though, what proof do you have? Sometimes seemingly damning evidence can be misinterpreted...

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Im sorry hun that he is or you think he's doing this too you . I get what you say about loving him and you want too make it work . But usually if you open that gate it wont be closed off too multiple times that he will slip out of it . Basically in plain english you forgive him and let him go back too you and something goes wrong in his eyes again then he will be back down that road and its like putting a kick *** here sign right on your butt. He thinks its ok. And it will get way out of control. Ive been cheeted on and lied too so many times and its not funny . Part of the reoson Im a single mom Im glad i didnt marry into it cause then id be trapped in a way. If your kids see that if you have kids or a child it affects them too. But this is only my oppinion. Your a grown women and the final decision breaks down too you. I had a lot invested into somone too at one time and yes i stayed for almost 4 yrs off and on . But you cant change somone into something you want them too be cause its a lost cause. yes it took me years too get too where it dont hurt anymore but at least i knew my heart was still beating like before. I get upset somedays cause things should of been diffrent . if you ever need too talk just im me or leave me a message.

But yeah i would make sure you have all the proof usually if they are calling you crazy and getting upset over dumb things and being stingy and stuff usually somet hings are apparent womens intution babe works everytime