What bad habits do you have as far as relationships go?

I know that personally I have a few ways of self-sabotaging relationships. I have trust issues and have been in relationships where my self-esteem became non-existant, so I have been bad about how I go about reassurance. Like okay if I try to argue and he still fights for me then he really does want to be with me kind of thing. I've gotten better about it with DH, but sometimes I still catch myself sometimes picking a fight for no reason, but it's lessened.

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