I get these in my inbox, when I remember I'll try to post them here. They have some good suggestions for him and her.

For Her
Romantic Gift Ideas:
Give him a gift certificate to a store where he can buy something for his
favorite hobby (a sporting goods store where he can buy fishing gear, hunting
gear, golf supplies, etc.)

For Him
Romantic Getaways:
Take your wife on a fall trip to an Amish county. Stay at a bed and breakfast.
Try to plan your trip during a craft fair, and take her shopping for antiques.

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Excerpted from "Simply Romantic Ideas: 150 Fun and Creative Ways to Romance Your
Husband" edited by Leslie J. Barner. Used with permission. Copyright 1998 by
FamilyLife. All rights reserved.
http://www.familylife.com/marriage.asp

For Her
Romantic Gift Ideas:
Give him a gift certificate to his favorite store, and design a date using what
he buys with it.

For Him
Romantic Getaways:
During the winter, make reservations at a local hotel that has an indoor pool
and hot tub. Check in as early as possible and relax together around the pool.
Sleep in the next morning, and enjoy a light breakfast in your room.


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Excerpted from "Simply Romantic Ideas: 150 Fun and Creative Ways to Romance Your
Wife" edited by Leslie J. Barner. Used with permission. Copyright 1998 by
FamilyLife. All rights reserved.