Question can you help? :)

Psaltea · #1 (**permalink**) 02-21-2008, 06:13 PM

Hello ladies, it has been busy busy busy here..

Today is my birthday and I rec'd a wonderful gift of a 1 hour massage from my DH!

I am contemplating on using that.. I can chose a man or woman who will do the massage.... but I don't know how I will feel allowing someone else to touch me like that....

Can you help?

I know it may sound silly but no one has touched me since being married to my wonderful DH...
HELP!

Thanks in advance!

MarineWife · #2 (**permalink**) 02-21-2008, 06:31 PM

I know what you mean!!!
I say go with a woman because then you might be more comfy.
Thats an awesome gift!! And HAPPY B-DAY!!!!!!

AirForceWife2008 · #3 (**permalink**) 02-21-2008, 07:16 PM

If it would make you feel more comfortable, definitely go with a woman. There's nothing wrong with saying no to a male, nope.

Personally, for me, it's never made a difference. But do what you would feel most comfortable with!

~*~ Lilli ~*~ · #4 (**permalink**) 02-22-2008, 04:04 PM

Awwww what a sweet gift! Personally for me I'd go with a female.

OhCheri! · #5 (**permalink**) 02-22-2008, 07:24 PM

I bought my husband a massage gift certificate for his birthday. He loved the idea but felt kinda hesitant about going...he was worried she might offer him a "happy ending". She was very professional and he enjoyed his massage completely. He told me I should have one someday and I have the same dilemma as you've brought up. Would I feel more comfortable with a man or a woman? I think the best way to decide is to get a recommendation and visit someone who is warm, friendly and 100% professional.

Enjoy!

Psaltea · #6 (**permalink**) 02-24-2008, 05:23 AM

Thank you all for your replies. I am not sure WHEN I am going to use it but hopefully soon, when the weather gets a bit warmer and I don't have to wear a heavy coat.

Thanks again, you girls are the best!