Tammy its your wk!!!

2moms2be · #1 (**permalink**) 07-15-2008, 02:09 PM

Ok Tammy... Here are some questions to get you started.

Where do you live?

How did you and your DP meet?

When did you know it was true love?

What does she do that makes you crazy?

What are your pet peeves?

What "type" were you in high school? ie, cheerleader/nerd/jock.

tlb0019 · #2 (**permalink**) 07-16-2008, 08:51 AM

Ok Tammy... Here are some questions to get you started.

Where do you live? We live in Smyrna Delaware. The good thing about where we live is that although it is in the middle of no where, we are close to alot. For example, we are less then an hour from the beach, a little over an hour to the mountains. An hour to philly or baltimore, and 2 hours to either NYC or wash DC.

How did you and your DP meet? We actually met online on match.com We talked for hours online in instant messenger and then finally met one day down at the beach.

When did you know it was true love? I do not know when i exactly knew it was true love. We began dating after we met and it went from over night dates turning into full weekends together, after a couple of months we were spending week nights together and then it got to the point that I was never at home and never wanted to be home because I hated leaving her. After a year of being together, i sold my house and we moved in together.

What does she do that makes you crazy? This is an easy one. Her smoking. I hate it that she smokes and i always tell her do not come to bed smeling like a cigarette. She will not smoke in the house or in the cars but i can still smell it on her. Wehn we have guests over our house who smoke, she tends to smoke more because she will always go out to have a cigarette with them whenever they go out for one.

What are your pet peeves? Slow drivers, and liars.

What "type" were you in high school? ie, cheerleader/nerd/jock. I was definetly the jock. I played softball, go figure. Oh and I still play today.

2moms2be · #3 (**permalink**) 07-16-2008, 09:51 AM

What do you and DP do for fun?

Where did you grow up?

I am assuming you and Dp own a house? (cause you sold yours) What is you house like? How many bedrooms and baths what kind of decor etc?

When did you know you were gay?

Anne&Berta · #4 (**permalink**) 07-16-2008, 07:10 PM

Okay I've got some:

What impact does trying to get pregnant have on y'all's relationship?

Does Chrissy's son live with you? Do you ever get the 'evil stepmother' bit?

What advice would you give to the young bucks out there today: the lil baby dykes that have girlfriends in middle school?

tlb0019 · #5 (**permalink**) 07-17-2008, 09:08 AM

What do you and DP do for fun? Well summer is our favorite time. So in the summer on the weekends we head down to the beach. We have a camper that is down there permanetly. We also have a boat so our weekend usually consists of crabbing on saturday, sometimes fishing but very rarely, and on sunday we go out tubing, waterskiing, and now wakeboarding. If it is too rough we just stay on the river and have a nice boat ride. Ill try to get some pictures up. We also play on a women's softball team in the spring / summer. With playing softball and being gone on the weekends, we usually use the week to rest up. In the winter, we love watching football and playing cards. Of course hanging out with friends. We just got finished finishing our basement, so last winter every friday night we had a group of people over to hang out, drink, play pool, etc. Saturday was usually a card game somewhere, and of course sunday was football. It seems that we are always doing stuff but we are very routine at the same time, if that makes sense.

Where did you grow up? I grew up in Delaware, so did my partner

I am assuming you and Dp own a house? (cause you sold yours) What is you house like? How many bedrooms and baths what kind of decor etc? We have a small ranch house. its 3 bedrooms, 2 baths, family room, kitchen and dining room. Like i said we just got done doing the basement to downstairs, we built a bar, have a pool table, and basketball arcade game, a little gym area, and a tv area. We have slowly been doing home improvements around the house. In the kitchen in the early spring we ripped down the wallpaper that wa sold and ugly and painted the walls a sand color, it has a chair rail and under that I did a maroon color ventian plaster. It looks very cool. We also took out the vinyl and put down pego floors. We just replaced the carpets throughout the house, it is now a neutral tan color, and in our bedroom it is a light sea green color. Our decor is kinda everywhere. I like beach and palm trees, chrissy likes home interior, so its kind of a mix. Our basement has light gray walls, dark grey carpet with white trim. I have a huge black and white lighthouse picture on the wall that looks awesome and of course bar signs around the bar.

What impact does trying to get pregnant have on y'all's relationship? i do not see it as too much of an impact. We have two boys now. Shawn (14) is with us all the time, and Logan (6) I share custody with my ex so he is there 50 percent of the time, as of right now. Chrissy knows how bad i want to have a baby, and she is very supportive of that, she just really really wants a girl.

Does Chrissy's son live with you? Do you ever get the 'evil stepmother' bit? Shawn does live with us. And of course I do get the evil step mother bit. I am more of the one that is stricker to keep him in line and I am the one that is quicker to discipline instead of letting him get away with things. But at the same time, i also am the one that planned a trip to St. louis so he can see his favorite NFL team play in their stadium. He knows as much as I am bad, i am good as well. He has also seen me stick up for him when needed. He has adjusted well to me being there, and will come to me on some things and comes to CHrissy for others. He knows when he messes up that he has to deal with me. But i think he also sees how i take care of him and his mom and how happy she is, so he deals with it good.
What advice would you give to the young bucks out there today: the lil baby dykes that have girlfriends in middle school? gf's in middle school? wow thats really robbing the cradle!! LOL. If you mean kids in middle school. I think the biggest thing with shawn is that we constantly have to check his work. Last year, when he was in 7th grade, his grades were not so good. Once i started checking his stuff daily and contacting his teachers his grades came up to honor roll. So this past year i told him I am going to give him the chance to prove himself because I should not have to treat him like a 4yr old. Well his grades progressively got worst and by the interim of his 3rd quarter he was failing. I stepped in, got on his butt, checked all his work, got in contact with his teachers and by the end of the quarter and the 4th quarter he was back on honor roll. It is not that he can't do his work, he is just lazy and more worried about video games then homework. at 14yrs old, he thinks he knows everything and can do anythign he wants so it is just having a good relationship with him, but also keeping him in check.

When did you know you were gay? Ha, well i had a girlfriend in first grade, does that count? actually in high school i knew i was attracted to girls but did nothing about it until afterwards. My first gf was when i was 18. Chrissy on the other hand did not come out till about 5 yrs ago.

Here is my myspace page if you want to check it out. MySpace.com - www.myspace.com/20908957

2moms2be · #6 (**permalink**) 07-17-2008, 09:22 AM

I requested to be added as a friend! It Julie's account but I had to take over cause she was never checking it!

2moms2be · #7 (**permalink**) 07-19-2008, 05:30 AM

What do you do for a living? Do you like it?

If you could do anything what would you do?

Tell us about your favorite vacation.

If you could go anywhere where would you go?

Do you have any pets?

If you had 1mill. $ to donate where would you donate it?

If you had 1mill $ you had to spend on your self what would you buy?

tlb0019 · #8 (**permalink**) 07-21-2008, 08:53 AM

What do you do for a living? Do you like it? I am a system administrator in the IT department of a bank. Our team of 5 manages about 300 servers. I like it for the most part. There are several days when i am very bored but I get along well with my team members so that is good. I do not care for the oncall, specially in the summer.

If you could do anything what would you do? If i could do anyhting else I would be a cop. I actually went through the process to be selected about 3 yrs ago and was in the top band of people that the selectioin comes from but i backed out for financial reasons. I would of had to take a 30k paycut and at the time i was single, and owned my own home and just conuld not afford it. I still wish I could do it but now with wanting to have a baby the timig is just not right.

Tell us about your favorite vacation. I have a couple favorite vacations. CHrissy and i began traveling with the Olivia (lesbian travel company). We have gone on a cruise full of 1800 lesbians, and we have been to resorts both in Punta Cana and in Cancun. Again nothing but lesbians. They were all such awesome trips. We went with a group of friends to the resorts. I prefer the resorts to the cruise trips, and since i broke my foot while we were in Punta Cana, i guess I am gonna have to say my favorite has been Cancun.

If you could go anywhere where would you go? Our dream vacation right now is to Tahiti

Do you have any pets? Yes we have 2 dogs and 2 cats. Our two dogs our both labs. the male is 10 the female is 5

If you had 1mill. $ to donate where would you donate it? We would donate it to an organization that helps animals.

If you had 1mill $ you had to spend on your self what would you buy? A house at the beach so that we could be there year round. Then we would probably buy some toys, like a jetski.