Shannon (S&S)

mk9906 · #1 (**permalink**) 09-13-2007, 06:27 PM

Hi Shannon.

I saw your message on the main board (need some help) and came over here to read it. I just wanted to send a message and say that I am sorry about your disappointing news lately.

Being on the pill for three weeks must be the LAST thing you want right now. And I know... I hear it too.... "well at least it's only a month." What non-ttcers don't get is that one month feels like a LIFETIME when you want something so important, so badly. So I'm sorry and I don't think you are being impatient. I think you are a woman who wants a baby, and I think your drive to do it and the heart you have put into it is part of why you will be a good mommy

I am also sorry that you don't have much support in your life. I'm sure it makes a bad situation much worse. Not many people know that we are TTC, my husband is wonderful, but the few friends who do know keep making the comment "Oh, just stop thinking about it an you'll get pregnant".

Hey, maybe you should try that! Apparently "not thinking" is a magical fertitlity aid

. I HATE when people say that! It's stupid, untrue, and rude. Oh well back to you, sorry. So I can sort of understand that feeling of facing this life altering event pretty much alone.

Being on the SK message boards has been so helpful to me. All of the support these ladies have to give means so much.

So, anyway, I just wanted to say that I'll be thinking of you and peeking in now and then and hoping and praying you and Stephany get your dream come true very soon.

S&S · #2 (**permalink**) 09-14-2007, 01:32 PM

Thanks so much for your care & support, these boards not only have been a major support, but when I am going into the unknown a lot of these women have already been on the medication or gone through the same things so it is very informative as well. I wish you all the baby dust in the world and I hope you get your

soon!