I'm at 5 dpo/iui (#4 iui). I'm feeling mostly mellow about things. For the 1st 3, i was way stressed out. Now after getting 3 negatives in a row, i'm trying not to be very optimistic. If it happens, great, but i'm not exactly expecting it.
Jessi, have you tried POAS again? Also, have you been checking your temps lately? Being sick (not just m/s, but cold/flu like sxs) is quite common in the beginning of a preg. I think it's because the immune system is suppressed so the egg has a chance to get established without the body attacking it.
I'll tell Santa that every one here has listed a bfp at the top of their wish list.