GOOD MORNING!!!!! Hope everyone is doing ok.
Tanzanite - Thank you for the good wishes.
happeegrl - you are lucky to have found such a convenient donor. Can he come stay with us after you get pregnant? We have yet to find a local donor. ARGH! Our April insem is fast approaching if this last cycle didn't work!
theluvof2moms - thank you for the good wishes .. we need them [see below]
mom2kk - sorry to hear about temp drop. I know you have been trying for a long time. Keep your chin up. Clomid cycles can be trying... we are all hear for you. Just keep us posted.
DP and I got into an arguement

last night, no we didn't yell, I don't do that. I find out from my son that she drank a beer

5 days after our insem this last cycle. I am livid. Her cousin, who I am not that fond of, told her she could test anytime. She took the test and it was

[of course it's too early]. And proceeded to have a beer

. Would you put a beer in a baby's bottle and give it to them???? Then why drink a beer if you could be pregnant. Not only did we learn this in the PSYCH class we took together but she knows better. I have told her over and over when we were testing and why we had to wait. Heck we already tested early and it was

. SHe has so many signs, a little nausea, very tender bb's, spotting at 7DPO, and very low energy and tired all the time. I just found out from my son last night. She ended up staying at his house last night. I know she feels bad about it. And probably one beer won't hurt ... but to me a toxin is a toxin. Why go through all this and take a risk no matter how small. I am I being petty... should I just let this one go or stick to my guns. I fear our relationship will suffer. But I feel I can't trust her now. We talked about all this. We hardly ever drink anyhow so we really didn't discuss drinking before the insem. But talked about medications, and other toxins to avoid.

Should I call

her? Need advice!
Ok, enough about me...

group hug! Thank you for all your posts and support. Keep sharing and lets stay together till we all know our results for this cycle!
Sorry so looooonnnnnggggg winded!