Hello again, ladies..
I have a question for you.
I'm ttc a girl and using shettles..i don't chart so i'm using opk's and cm as my major sign of O, and i think i'm pretty regular...my cycle is 25 at the shortest, and 29 at the longest.
I seem to O early and my LP is about 15-16 days.
I've been ttc a girl for the last 7 months using about 2-3 day c/o and it didn't seem to work so this month, i've decided to bd until right after i see a + opk.
Well, i saw my first + on cd 10 at 8 pm(the line was equally dark) but wasn't too sure so tested again the next morning(cd11) at 11 and it was very obviously darker so we bd'd right then...and then we stopped bd'ing.(oh, we also bd'd on the night of cd9 i had a neg opk then)
I'm assuming i'll be O'ing sometimes today(in the morning since it's been 36 hrs after i saw the first + opk and i was testing twice a day)
But then this morning, i just tested again expecting to see a - opk but it was still +...my question is, should i bd again tonight?
Or did i cover it all for a girl and bd'ing again today will favor a boy rather than a girl?
Can surge last this long?

I would stop bediding!! I tried for a girl also but we had another little boy. However, he is my angel and wouldn't trade him for the world. I have belonged to a ttc group for almost 3 years now with all the information you need to try and get your girl. I will give you the link if you post your e-mail to me. It's a very private group but the women are the best and all very supportive!! I wish you all the luck in getting your little princess!!!

Oh girls,

I'm soooo sorry for jumping in-I really thought this was my August baby group. the link is right next to this one. I didn't mean to jump on this boards toes.

Never mind about the other board-these ladies can be very helpful to you!!

Hope you get your girl and all the answers you need!!