Does that mean i O on the that day or the follwing?
RArely i have them for two days but the second day is usually much less than the first day..but does that mean i still O on the last day of ewcm not the first day when i have much more of it?
I don't temp so i rearlly don't know but my opk usually turns + on the day i get ewcm...what do you ladies think?
I'm trying for a girl but since i havn't conceived w/ 2 day cutoff for the past 7 months, maybe i'm guessing my O day wrong...I used to think the only day i get ewcm is my O day but maybe it's the day FOLLOWING ewcm? So my cutoff day was actually 3 instead of 2 which, i think, was too far from my O day to even conceive...
Can i still get a girl w/ ewcm?
so far, i only bd's when i didn't have ewcm and as soon as i did, i stopped because i was afraid it would be too close to O...
OR should i bd up until i have +++ opk and use cranbesrry to dry up???
Please help!

Yes, you can still conceive a girl with EWCM. Secondly, you should count the last day of your wettest CM as the day of ovulation. As soon as you see the wettest turn to sticky again, you know you have ovulated. Good Luck!