Ok, so I bought a bumper for the other crib and I am going to try separating them.... I know its more me then them that wants to keep them together! So I thought I would give it a go and see what happens. If they sleep better then I will know it was for the best!
Mind you they don't sleep bad as it is. Its just that its hard for me to do sleep training when I am worried that someone is getting pummeled.