Question Confuesed ( soorry it might be TMI)

Minniemouse24 · #1 (**permalink**) 07-09-2008, 06:22 AM

Hi Ladies..

I hope that everyone is doing well.

I have a question about CM before you O.. I nothiced that After AF is gone I'm a bit damp down there. and then for a few days I'm so dry that it hurts if DH trys to touch so we can Have some fun. is this normal ?? I had the feeling last night that I would be ok to BD but then we went to try and it was dry.. and Now this morning I feel wet down there and I'm hoping that it stays this way untill tonight so WE can BD and try to catch the egg if I O in the next few days..

I'm so so sorry this is long and Way to much information but I don't know who to talk to about this you girls are the only ones who know anything of importance.

Thanks for the adivce in advance. Hope all is well.

mommy1923 · #2 (**permalink**) 07-09-2008, 06:28 AM

It is definitely normal to be dryer right after

. Your cm usually gets wetter as you get closer to O. I've used preseed in the past to help with some of the dryness. GL on your timing!

Minniemouse24 · #3 (**permalink**) 07-09-2008, 06:31 AM

Thanks. I think I should O in the next couple of days.. I hope that we can catch it this month. If not there's next month with the first IUI..

AFLGirlatHeart · #4 (**permalink**) 07-09-2008, 06:35 AM

Yes it is normal. I get a lot of EWCM but we still used mineral oil last month. We used regular lube before that. It helps tremendously.

Kavitaluna · #5 (**permalink**) 07-09-2008, 08:05 AM

Preseed worked for us

We only used half the bottle each time though. There's lots of lube in that little bottle! LOL!

Speaking of TMI, here's a TMI fest for you. I used to know I was super fertile when I would use the Preseed and then afterward DH and I BD nothing came back out. I knew my cervix wasn't quite open yet when we would finish and a lot of it would come immediately back out. Gross, but this is sometimes a good indicator!

wannababy · #6 (**permalink**) 07-09-2008, 08:33 AM

Sounds like everything is working properly sweetie! You will have AF, then dry up some, then start getting wet/creamy and then get the EW and finally dry up after O. So don't worry! I would definitely try keeping your va-jay-jay moisturized if you are having problems with being too dry! Don't want that thing hurt for O time! Good luck and I hope you catch the egg!

TTC#1 · #7 (**permalink**) 07-09-2008, 08:41 AM

Hey Carmen,

I agree with the girls, just get yourself some lube that is sperm friendly. Pre-seed is good, I've used it before. Good luck sweetie!

Minniemouse24 · #8 (**permalink**) 07-09-2008, 10:15 AM

Kavitaluna - I noticed that as well Agian sorry for TMI. But if DH and I finsh with him on Top everything falls out. so We finish with Dh Behind. they say that's better to concieve if you have a tilttled Uterus. So we've been trying like that since I found that out.

thank you ladies for all the advice.. I'm so happy that I can talk to you ladies about this.

Hey T. How are things going ?