Dont like feeling this way.

tdfinnegan · #1 (**permalink**) 03-17-2008, 11:52 AM

TTC is so hard when you dont O. Its like eveyrone when my period is late I get so anxious to take a HPT and its always a BFN. Its so heartbreaking. Even my DH gets upset because we want another baby so bad. IM scared to go to the Doc. Just beacuse I dont want to hear something bad. I know that I dont have anything serious but you know "what if" theres something that is preventing me from conceiving another baby? Its always in the back of my head and in my thoughts all the time. I thank God for our daughter everyday. Im so glad and thankful that he gave me her. I dont know what I would do without her. I dont mean to e winning but its just sad sometimes.

mk9906 · #2 (**permalink**) 03-17-2008, 12:07 PM

Well first of all....

Everyone on this board knows exactly how you are feeling today.

I was worried to go to the doctor too. But I felt a million times better once I did. We got awful news, but still it was good to finally know and know what we could do to help.

Regardless of going to the doctor if something is wrong, it's wrong. Like with us... we tried for 10 months and nothing. If we didn't go to the doctor and find out what is going on we could have tried for the next 10 YEARS and never have conceived. But now that we know that conceiving naturally isn't going to happen we can take steps to get help.

KWIM??

The GREAT news is that you have a daughter, so conceiving isn't impossible for you. I'm sure if something is up it's nothing major. Could be something clomid or something like that could easily fix.

Keep your chin up.

We are here for you

mommy1923 · #3 (**permalink**) 03-17-2008, 01:29 PM

I think every lady here knows exactly how you feel! Don't be afraid to go to the Dr.! Mandy is right in that even if it is not Great news, it's still news and it will help you move forward. Sometimes the stress of TTC delays everything and a piece of mind can get you back on track. GL!

Kavitaluna · #4 (**permalink**) 03-17-2008, 02:52 PM

Yeah, there wouldn't be a forum here if nobody else felt the same way you do.

We are all in the same boat, girlfriend.

I was thinking the same thing Mandy was. What if this is something super simple and all you need is a dose of clomid? Go check it out, girl. Better to know than to worry yourself into a frenzy. Believe me- no matter what you might think- not knowing IS worse.

Lmfinnegan · #5 (**permalink**) 03-17-2008, 06:35 PM

Tiffanee, Thats what i say too.Go see a DR.That way you know what is going on.I also think that clomid will fix it...I love you and I hope you get some answers soon.I want you to have a baby again just as much as you want one.I loved being pregnant with you...Big hugs.I know how you feel.Trust me when Kevin and I couldnt have kids before the reversal.I was heart broken.I had to take the first step and see the Dr and now look I have Thayaden.You will have another baby girly...

Tkeys · #6 (**permalink**) 03-17-2008, 08:22 PM

I also would go to the doctor . . . well, I did! If you aren't O'ing, there are relatively "easy" fixes. Why waste time if you can DO something!! I think it is always better to know what you are up against.