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Old 06-24-2008, 04:20 AM
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Default BFN today...Chemical?

Well, I took two FRER and and IC and all are negative. I still see the pos from yesterday, so, I guess this is a chemical pg? Should I just wait to see if AF Shows? Is it possible to still be pg?

I am just so upset, I really thought this was IT for us. I told DH that I shouldn't have told him and he said, "NO, I'm glad you told me".
Should I take baby aspirin next cycle? Thank you all for your wonderful well wishes, I'm just so sad that this is over already.
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Old 06-24-2008, 04:28 AM
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Default Re: BFN today...Chemical?

Oh Leah, I'm so sorry sweetie! It probably was a chemical because I know I saw the line yesterday too. I would just wait to see if AF shows, she may be a few days late because of this though. If she doesn't show, test again. Oh and I've heard that the baby aspirin couldn't hurt but may help with implantation!
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Old 06-24-2008, 04:38 AM
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Oh sweetie I'm so sorry this is happening to you
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Old 06-24-2008, 04:39 AM
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Oh, Leah - I'm so sorry.

It probably was a chemical. There is nothing you could have done to prevent this from happening - it probably indicates there was something not quite right with this pregnancy from a genetic perspective. It isn't about anything you did or didn't do - it is unfortunately one of those cruel things in life that happens. You can take baby aspirin next cy - it can't hurt and it is supposed to help prepare the lining for implantation. Remember, Katrina got her sticky the cy after her chemical! I know how devastated you must be right now, and I'm just so sorry.

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Old 06-24-2008, 04:43 AM
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Leah, OH NO! I am soooo sorry. I can't believe it. I saw the line too and was so excited for you. Please let me know if you need anything. I wish I could just threw the computer and hug you! =(
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Old 06-24-2008, 04:59 AM
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oh no--- Im sorry Leah... Im so upset now-- I dont even know what to say.. Im sorry..
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Old 06-24-2008, 05:00 AM
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I'm sorry that you have to go through this leah. Keep strong and have faith and it will all fall into place.

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Old 06-24-2008, 05:03 AM
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i am so sorry Leah, I just went through a chemical pregnancy myself this month and I can understand how devestated you must be. Take care of yourself and I hope you get a good sticky BFP next round.
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Old 06-24-2008, 05:05 AM
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Oh Leah!! I am so sorry!! I'm hoping there was just something not right with those tests!! But if not, Tkeys is right, there was something genetically not right. I hope this next month does it for you!! You'll be in my prayers.
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Old 06-24-2008, 05:39 AM
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Leah!!



I'm crying right now for you!! I'm so sorry, but take heart!! If it is..just know that next cycle is it for you then!! Look at me! KUP on any results..and I'll be sending you positive thoughts and prayers!!!!!!

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Old 06-24-2008, 05:41 AM
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Default Re: BFN today...Chemical?

Thank you all so much, I know something was just not right for something to happen this early on and now at least I know that I CAN get pg. and that with the increased odds from the HSG and the increased odds of a pg after a miscarriage, we will have an excellent chance this next cycle. Also, July is my birth month and they say that increases your odds of pregnancy too, so it seems everything is on my side. I just have to stay positive.

I know a lot of you have gone through this and gotten through it and I know that I will too. I'm so glad I have you all. In a way, I wish I never tested yesterday, but in a way, I'm glad that I did.

Do you think it is necessary to go to the Dr. or should I just wait this out?
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Old 06-24-2008, 05:58 AM
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Oh Leah I am so very sorry. This truely breaks my heart I was so thrilled for you.
Please know you are in my prayers and i hope it is going to happen for you soon. You have a possitive attitude which always helps.
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Old 06-24-2008, 06:00 AM
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Leah - I am so sorry. Like Tkeys said, you may have a really good chance at getting your sticky next month and you know you can get pregnant. I hope things turn around for you real soon.
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Old 06-24-2008, 06:07 AM
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Oh Leah, I am so sorry sweetie. Remember this saying...

"I am not afraid of the storm, it is preparing me to sail my ship."

Love you, Leah!!!
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Old 06-24-2008, 06:20 AM
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Leah so sorry for you.Just remember everything happens for a reason. I know you will get your bfp very soon.
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Old 06-24-2008, 06:27 AM
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Oh Leah I'm so sorry. I am so sad to read this. I am sending big hugs your way and of course I will keep you in my prayers. This is not fair

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Old 06-24-2008, 06:41 AM
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No! I'm so sorry Leah. I love your attitude that next month will be it for you. B-day = BFPs!

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Old 06-24-2008, 07:07 AM
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I am so very sorry Leah. I didn't go to my dr. after my early m/c (I don't call them chemicals anymore) so I would give you the same advice. There isn't anything the dr. can do. Maybe a mention that you did get a + pregnancy test would be good for your records. Hang in there! You have a great attitude and you do know you can conceive! Next time it will be sticky! (((HUGS)))
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Old 06-24-2008, 07:16 AM
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Oh Leah, I am so very sorry!! My heart is breaking for you. I just know your sticky is on it's way. I hope it's next month! ((((hugs))))
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Old 06-24-2008, 07:46 AM
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I'm so sorry Leah.
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