robin it may be too early for a hpt just yet, dont give up hope. wait a day a try again with fmu. kup!
irishope its really hard to give adive out side of go

everyother day around o'time with out hearing how your apt goes. and understanding whats going on.
charting will help give you and your doc an understanding of your cys. it tells you when you have o'ed and how long your leteal phase is. let me know if you want more info on how to chart