Feeling a BFN coming on

mk9906 · #1 (**permalink**) 08-22-2007, 07:19 AM

Well I'm not very hopeful this month. I haven't had any major symptoms, I know some women don't but I just have a feeling this is not my month.

My temps have been nuts. I think it might be because since ovulation I haven't had a "full" night's sleep. The puppy wakes us up at least once during the night and then usually at 5am.

The only thing I noticed was some weird cramping 4dpo and a major rash at 7dpo (which is better now) and today I'm 8dpo but still a little itchy on my arms and legs.

I'm just feeling a little down about it.

Tkeys · #2 (**permalink**) 08-22-2007, 07:53 AM

Okay . . . I'm trying to be supportive, comforting and give you hope right now, which is difficult because I'm currently feeling the exact same way!

Let's try this . . . tons of people don't have any symptoms, which is how people can go a few weeks before noticing they are pregnant. And we've both had cys where we feel tons of symptoms, and we aren't pg, so maybe no symptoms is a good sign. I'm feeling better this cy than in any other cy (of course I still can't shake the feeling that isn't a good sign).

Your temp isn't going to tell you much because of your disrupted sleep, so don't pay attention to it! And 8 DPO might still be too early for symptoms . . . we could just be implanting today!

I'm not sure I helped any . . . but know you aren't alone in this feeling. All of us in the 2ww are going through the same things. I'm hoping we are both pregnant . . . and if not, on to cy #3 for me! In the scheme of things, we haven't been trying very long . . . not that it helps me with my patience. When I want something, I want it NOW, and it is frustrating when it doesn't happen on my time frame. Just wait 'til you see what a wreck I'll be tomorrow if I cave in and test . . . knowing it is too early and knowing i'll get a bfn, i'll still be pretty devastated.

So . . . I'll just keep waiting with you.

May · #3 (**permalink**) 08-22-2007, 08:01 AM

Im sorry you feeling down. I felt like that yesturday. SOOOOOO down. Today I am feeling much better. I think what happend for me was yesturday I let go most of my hope for this cycle. So today I really dont have much hope left but I have gotten over the initial sadness of it.
I hope we are both wrong though. I would love for us both to get bfp's and be SHOCKED. lol

Tkeys · #4 (**permalink**) 08-22-2007, 08:51 AM

Megan - any chance you O'd 2 days later than FF has marked? Then you would only be 8DPO, and still too early to have a +HPT. The good news is that your LP is 10 days right now.

May · #5 (**permalink**) 08-22-2007, 08:54 AM

I guess its possible. I have thought of that. Going by my CM and temps I tend to think its probably cd 14. I just dont know for sure. Just one more thing to obsess over...

Constance_13 · #6 (**permalink**) 08-22-2007, 10:11 AM

WOW.....I was feeling the exact same way this morning when I woke up. I was cuddling with my DH and almost in tears cuz I was sure I was going to get a BFN!!! He tried to comfort me and tell me to not worry either way till I can test and have an answer BUT for me that is sooo very hard….I hate not knowing and feeling so out of control. I do not know why I am feeling that way today but it’s just an over whelming feeling. I am just hoping it is part of the roller coaster ride of hormones currently.

Yesterday I was sure I was PG and today I have major doubt. I am sorry that you guys are having the same bad feelings. It’s kind of nice to not be alone in this but at the same time I wish for all of us that we could all feel more positive.

I truly wish everyone a BFP!!!

Good luck ladies!!!

mk9906 · #7 (**permalink**) 08-22-2007, 03:53 PM

It does help to know you aren't alone though doesn't it?

Looks like we will be testing on the same day

Are you going to be able to hold out until Sunday?

Lily2584 · #8 (**permalink**) 08-22-2007, 04:50 PM

to all of you

Just wanted to share what I try to do to stay upbeat: I just keep repeating to myself to not make judgements until

actually shows. Even

are wrong... often. I also remind myself of the statistics, only a 25% chance of conception each cycle under perfect circumstances.

I know the 2ww stinks, hoping you all get the

you want!