Thanks for all the support ladies,
we only ended up with the final number of 7. So we will work with what we can, and see how many survive the thaw .
Did i mention I found a woman to be a known donor?
This is not dh's pg cousin LOL.
I was corresponding by email and didn't think she was serious, she lives in London which is one hour away from here and also is in the city of the clinic we would have to use. She is charging 4K for one cycle.
She has donated for other couples and they all ended up with between 17 to 25 mature eggs, all ended up with BFP's too!
I called my OB/GYN and am getting us referred to the clinic, all of her stuff and mine is all updated so looks like there won't be too many roadblocks or time involved b4 she can start. She has her psych screening already completed also.
I thought better to go ahead and retain her just in case we don't get a BFP in March. Donors are almost impossible to come by in Canada.
We can't really afford to do a complete cycle so this way we can use dh sperm and freeze whatever numbers we end up with.
I am quite confidant now having this for back up we will eventually get a BFP.
This certainly will allow many attempts for a FET.
Its funny how things have worked out, ALTHOUGH I know we will be SPENDING alot more money, that part is definitely NOT over!!!
Anyhow I am alot more calm actually way more calmer about my infert issues.
I spoke with her on the phone and she sounds like a beautiful human being.
Who knows we may get enough to donate and help another couple eventually.
Anyhow I am resting today - forcing myself to stay in bed and EAT and nurture myself. All the kids are at school or at daycare.
Dh and stopped fighting called a truce and had a great morning quickie LOL
I know TMI~~~
Those IVF drugs sure did affect me and my moods!!!!
Thanks to everyone's support, I couldn't have got through this without you all!
Barb I am really pulling for you I know what you must be going thru right now.
BTW did it occur to you that we may be at the clinic the same week???
My date is tentative march 6......

you wrote first week of march also???
Wouldn't it be funny if we went the same day???
TTYL
M