Both my mw and doc said I need to wait 2 weeks before dtd after my d&c last tuesday. That would make it okay next tuesday.
Here's the deal. Dave and I are off to San Francisco tonight for the weekend. Do you think a few days early would be so bad?? I mean, it is New Years and we will be in SF. Also, we return the 1st, which is also the day his mom arrives on Maui for a 10 day visit. While I'm sure she wants to give us "privacy" it's still awkward for me knowing she will be in the next room.
I'll sit on the fence about the permission, but i just wanted to say, if you do cheat, be careful. They tell you 2 weeks because your body has been thru a lot and needs to heal. Either way, enjoy your trip.
well it's ok to DTD however with protection. You need to heal and your body is not yet strong enough to DTD without protection. If you did get pg again your mind will always be worried, so give your self a break, enjoy your weekend without the risk. After all it's a weekend for you two to have some fun and let your hair down. DEEP breaths now!!
(I wish I had time to grab a coffee with you I'm gonna be in Pacifica and Daly City; we live in San Jose). Gonna do anything more while your here?
You bet!! We have plenty of room for a stay too if you think you can welcome by two nearly 3 year olds! they have this way about them that will suck you in to hours of puzzles, playdough and choo choo's